Uncommon Arrangements

by Katie Roiphe

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Ottoline Morrell was the most famous literary hostess in England before and during World War I. Her “Thursdays” at her house on Bedford Square in London were matched only by the weekends at Garsington, the country estate where Ottoline and her husband, Philip, entertained some of the most famous artists and writers of the day, including W. B. Yeats, Charlie Chaplin, and T. S. Eliot. D. H. Lawrence parodied Ottoline in the character Hermione in his novel Women in Love (1920), and Aldous Huxley did the same in his novel Crome Yellow (1921). She had an affair with a gardener at Garsington in 1920 (which may have influenced Lawrence’s 1928 Lady Chatterley’s Lover), and another, longer affair with the brilliant philosopher Bertrand Russell, author of Principia Mathematica (1910-1913). Her husband was not idle: He propositioned the novelist Virginia Woolf, among others, and in March of 1917 announced to his wife that he had not one but two pregnant mistresses on his busy hands.

The story of the Morrells is just one of seven fascinating narratives Katie Roiphe weaves together in Uncommon Arrangements: Seven Portraits of Married Life in London Literary Circles, 1910-1939. Her focus is less the scandals and the sexual adventures of these couplesand the triangles of various sizes and configurations they all maintainedthan their attempts to forge something new, marriage based on equality, freedom, and honesty. This period was one of incredible social instability. The Great War decimated a generation of British men at the same time that it propelled women into new roles and a new consciousness of the power they possessed, as in both the pacifist and the feminist movements of the time. The period also saw immense artistic experimentation and production. The major modernist artistsPablo Picasso, James Joyce, among many otherswere at work in this period redefining the very substance and structure of literature and art. Lovers were trying to shed outdated Victorian mores at the same time that writers were discarding inherited forms, in order to carve out something new, for literature as well as for human interaction.

Roiphe focuses on seven famous “families” in England in this intense period, from before World War I until just before World War II. She chooses writers and artists, plus one literary hostess, and uses their letters, diaries, and memoirs to reveal what they thought, wrote, and said about marriage and married life. This may have been the most writerly generation on record, for psychologists like Sigmund Freud and Havelock Ellis had taught them the importance of feelings, especially sexual feelings, and their expression. They wrote voluminously about their feelings and about their relationships. Roiphe mines this library (her selected bibliography is a dozen pages long) and comes up with revealing glimpses of some of the most creative artists the twentieth century would see, people who were trying to figure out intimate relations in imaginative ways. Every chapter begins with a crisis in a marriage and shows whether it was resolved or not, and, in the process, Roiphe shows how successful these people were at forging something new in human relations.

H. G. Wells, for example, was the author of popular scientific romances (The Time Machine, 1895, The War of the Worlds , 1898) and in 1914 was settled into a comfortable country house in Essex with his open-minded wife, Jane, who had tolerated the series of sexual liaisons he carried on, when his current mistress, the writer and feminist Rebecca West, one hundred miles away, was giving birth to their son, Anthony. Roiphe spends her first chapter describing how these people managed...

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their decade-long ménage à trois. West was a feminist and, like Wells, believed that not acting on one’s sexual attractions was hypocritical, but Roiphe concludes that, in spite of their radical ideas, West and Wells fell into a life of traditional marital hypocrisy anyway. In the end, she feels, they succumbed to fairly outmoded, Victorian notions of marriage. Wells remained in his family and maintained his string of sexual affairs, and West married banker Harry Andrews in 1929 and went on to writeBlack Lamb and Grey Falcon: A Journey Through Yugoslavia in 1941, among other works, and to be featured on the cover of Time magazine in 1948 as the world’s single most famous woman writer. Their son Anthony would go on to write a bitter account of his childhood.

Roiphe’s remaining portraits are equally intriguing. The short-story writer Katherine Mansfieldwho would write “Bliss,” “The Daughters of the Late Colonel,” and “The Garden Party,” among other famous storiesmarried the editor and critic John Middleton Murry, but their marriage seemed almost childish, and they spent much time apart. In her battle with tuberculosis and early death, when Murry was unable to stand by her, it was her intimate friend Ida Baker who would nurse her. Ironically, editors would consider her one of the experts on “Modern Love,” but her own marriage appears both restless and irresponsible. Elizabeth von Arnim was another famous writer, the author of the instant sensation and best seller Elizabeth and her German Garden (1898). Her feminist novels urged women to abandon their domestic responsibilities for greater freedom and travel, but she ended up marrying a controlling tyrant, Frank Russell. In the end, in what sounds like the plot of a Evelyn Waugh comic novel, she had to flee the marriage to California but still ended up in court, fighting a suit by her husband that she stole his possessionsincluding his tennis balls. The overlapping ironies in Roiphe’s narratives are rich and recurring: Von Arnim was herself at one point a mistress of H. G. Wells, and her cousin, Katherine Mansfield, had early envied her “what she saw as the ease and lightness of her lifeElizabeth had somehow managed to live a full domestic life with children and husbands, and achieve literary success.”

Roiphe’s centerpiece in these seven portraits is her chapter on Vanessa Bell, her husband Clive, and her fellow painter Duncan Grant, and their complex emotional arrangements. This triangle was close to the center of the Bloomsbury Group, that famed artistic and intellectual circle of friends that included Vanessa’s sister, the novelist Virginia Woolf; the social critic Lytton Strachey; and the economist John Maynard Keynes, among others. Vanessa and Clive felt themselves “part of a sudden, liberating break from the last remnants of Victorian propriety,” and in 1918 Vanessa was living with him in an open marriage that included her current lover, Duncan Grant, and his lover David Garnett. Her former lover, the art critic Roger Fry, called their arrangement, in apparent seriousness, “an almost ideal family based as it is on adultery and mutual forbearance . It really is rather a triumph of reasonableness over the conventions.” Vanessa managed to maintain this complicated emotional family for some time, through the death of her son Julian in the Spanish Civil War in 1937, and even the marriage of her daughter Angelica (by Grant) to David Garnett in 1942.

The ménage of Una Troubridge, Radclyffe Hall, and Evguenia Souline appears rather traditional by contrast. Hall and Troubridge were together for nearly two decades, which included the obscenity trial over Hall’s The Well of Loneliness (1928)“the first serious chronicle of a lesbian’s life to appear in print,” and a novel advertised as “the most controversial book of the century.” Troubridge maintained her firm support of Hall’s career, even during the period when Hall drew her new love Evguenia into what the French called their “trio Lesbienne,” but Troubridge had the last word when Hall fell sick. She nursed Hall through a long illness until her death and cut Evguenia out of the will. Likewise, there was the triangle of professor George Gordon Catlin; his wife, the writer Vera Brittain, author of the best-selling 1934 The Testament of Youth (an autobiographical account of the war years that brought back both the physical and psychological violence); and the friend who supported her through much of her adulthood, the novelist Winifred Holtby, author of the popular novel South Riding (1936). In their case, a ménage in which they were physically if not emotionally separated from each other seems to have worked best, and this final chapter is certainly less impassioned than Roiphe’s earlier accounts.

In her postscript, Roiphe returns to the questions she sketched out in her introduction, “Marriage à la Mode”“How does one accommodate the need for settled life with the eternal desire for freshness?” and “why do people drift apart? Why do they stay together?”and concludes that these seven couples “were torn as we are torn: between tradition and innovation, between freedom and settled life, between feminist equality and reassuring, old-fashioned roles.” Roiphe’s study is valuable for what it tells modern readers about the abiding institution of marriage, its strengths and inherent pitfalls. As she shows, “those tattered, sentimental, Victorian images of marriage that they were so eager to cast off proved more stubbornly entrenched than they would have thought possible,” and, in spite of their progressive ideas, some of these writers “were at the same time constantly reproducing traditional structures of female dependence.” Like other examples of a new literary form of writing biographyand Roiphe credits Phyllis Rose’s Parallel Lives: Five Victorian Marriages (1983) among other recent worksher study is lateral rather than chronological, linking together like (and unlike) entities so that their juxtapositions often reveal something startlingly new. Her writing is itself fresh and inviting, and the stories she relates make literary history come alive again.

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