With regard to the statement, "Death is a common theme in Hardy's poetry," I would have to agree .
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[Hardy's] works are often deeply pessimistic and full of bitter irony, in sharp contrast to the prevalent Victorian optimism.
As a Victorian author confronting the changes promised...
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by England's Industrial Revolution (which would precede America's by about one hundred years), one might imagine that some of his work could be pessimistic to begin with, but he started writing novels long before he began working with poetry.
There are exceptions. "The Darkling Thrush" is a poem full of hope. "I Said To Life" speaks of a loss of love in general. And there are other poems that do not fall into the category of "death." However...
...in 1870...Hardy met and fell in love with Emma Lavinia Gifford, whom he married...Although he later became estranged from his wife...her death had a traumatic effect on him...His Poems 1912–13 reflect upon her passing...preoccupied with his...wife's death, [he] tried to overcome his remorse by writing poetry.
And while not all of Hardy's poems are about his wife, Hardy wrote many other poems that were also about death. For example, "Drummer Hodge" was about a drummer who died and was buried in Africa during the the first of the two Boer Wars in which the British were involved.
Based upon the article from Wikipedia.com, Hardy started writing poems to help him cope with losing his wife (even though they were no longer together when she died). Because of Hardy's motivation for writing these poetry in the first place, it is safe to assume that he was preoccupied with loss and death.
Therefore, death is a common theme in Hardy's poems.
Do you agree with the statement: "Death is a common theme in Hardy's poetry"?
I must admit, I would want to widen the statement to refer generally to Hardy's sense of pessimism in his poetry. Death of course is just one aspect that he touches upon, but you will also want to pay attention to and analyse his preoccupation with the passing of time, the loss of loved ones, failed hopes and the decline of religious faith. Certainly the passage of time is a central theme in Hardy's poetry. At times it is as if he believed it was the fount of all unhappiness. Linked with this of course is his view of nature as being utterly indifferent to the short lives of human beings. Hardy's personal philosophy of life was that he considered humanity to be utterly swamped by the forces of the universe, which resulted in deep feelings of alienation and struggles with his own personal significance.
Thus we can see that so many of his poems, such as "At Castle Boterel" and "During Wind and Rain" feature a massive conflict as the speaker struggles against the sense of meaninglessness of space and time, and attempts to reassert what is essentially human against the forces of the universe. Likewise we can thus see the importance of acts of memory, where the speaker attempts to reclaim the past. And yet those poems that do try to do so, like "The Voice" and "At Castle Boterel," end in inevitable failure and a return to the pessimistic tone that dominates.
Therefore, whilst death is definitely a focus of Hardy's poetry, I think you would find it more fruitful to examine his pessimism as a whole, of which the theme of death is one undeniable part.