Illustration of Kate Hardcastle in high society attire on the left, and dressed as a barmaid on the right

She Stoops to Conquer

by Oliver Goldsmith

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Kate Hardcastle's identity and marital status in "She Stoops to Conquer."


In "She Stoops to Conquer," Kate Hardcastle is a young woman of marriageable age. She is the daughter of Mr. Hardcastle and remains unmarried throughout the play, although she eventually becomes engaged to Charles Marlow by the end.

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Who is Kate Hardcastle married to in "She Stoops to Conquer"?

At the end of Oliver Goldsmith’s play She Stoops to Conquer, it is decided that Kate Hardcastle will marry Charles Marlow.

Kate Hardcastle is an upper-class woman. Her father wants her to marry a man from the same class named Charles Marlow, the son of one of his wealthy friends. When Marlow and Kate meet, Marlow is extremely shy, and Kate later reflects that she would like him a lot if she could break him out of his shell. Marlow also mistakes Kate for a barmaid because she is wearing an old-fashioned dress. Kate decides to use this to her advantage and try to get to know more about Marlow.

Although she lies about who she is, pretending to be of a lower social class does allow Kate to get close to Marlow. He is more comfortable talking to women who are not from the upper class, and he starts to like Kate the way she likes him. He becomes conflicted between his feelings for her and his desire to be with someone of the same social class. In the end, Marlow reveals he loves the barmaid for herself and wants to be with her despite her low social standing. Knowing he loves her for who she is, not for her money, Kate marries Marlow.

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Who is Kate Hardcastle in She Stoops to Conquer?

Kate Hardcastle is the daughter of wealthy landowner Richard Hardcastle. She is a beautiful, intelligent, witty, and resourceful lead character in the play. When her father mentions Charles Marlow, the son of a wealthy friend, as a possible husband for her, Kate is willing to consider the possibility.

Kate learns about Marlow's tongue-tied shyness or reserve around woman, and it worries her. She notes, "A reserved lover, it is said, always makes a suspicious husband," but then, she weighs the pros and cons of who he is:

Sensible, good-natured; I like all that. But then reserved, and sheepish, that's much against him. Yet can't he be cured of his timidity, by being taught to be proud of his wife?

When Marlow, deceived into thinking her country estate is an inn, sees Kate in the kind of old-fashioned dress her father likes her to wear, he mistakes her for a servant. Bright and quick-thinking, Kate decides to take advantage of the mistake by pretending to be a barmaid—stooping to conquer—and getting to know Marlow for who he is really is. She realizes Marlow is open and at ease with lower-class women in a way that he is not with the upper-class ladies he feels pressure to impress.

Kate, a character often compared to such resourceful, witty, and self-confident characters from Shakespeare as Rosalind from As You Like It and Portia, from The Merchant of Venice, has an opportunity not open to many women of her class, which is to really get to know her prospective husband before she marries him—not to mention the chance to test if her prospective husband really loves her for herself, not her money.

Kate is a good balance between a self-possessed woman who wants to guide her own destiny and a daughter attentive to her father's ideas and respectful of him, making her an exemplary character for her time period.

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