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The Secret Life of Bees

by Sue Monk Kidd

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Themes: Community of Women

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In "The Daughters of Mary," Kidd presents a feminist, matriarchal counterpoint to the oppressive, racist, white male religious and civil authorities that hold sway in Tiburon. The Boatwright sisters and other Daughters honor the Virgin Mary, representing a divine feminine force. This nurturing presence is in stark contrast to Brother Gerald, the Baptist preacher in Sylvan. Their worship revolves around communal meals and beloved shared rituals. By the conclusion of the novel, both Rosaleen and Lily have found their places within this primarily female community, which is guided by principles of strength and grace. This is clearly demonstrated when August and the Daughters confront T. Ray, who arrives to reclaim Lily, doing so with firmness but without resorting to threats or violence.

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What is the significance of Lily's thoughts on May's sensitivity in Chapter 5 of "The Secret Life of Bees"?

"Would it divide the hurt in two, make it lighter to bear, the way feeling someone's joy seemed to double it?"

Lily's thoughts on May's sensitivity highlight her internal struggle between emotional openness and emotional numbness. She fears becoming like her father, T. Ray, who is emotionally detached, and considers the possibility that sharing pain might alleviate it, just as sharing joy amplifies it. Lily's contemplation marks a pivotal decision to embrace vulnerability and trust, as evidenced by her willingness to share her own painful story with the Boatwrights, indicating a move towards emotional connection.

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