In Romeo and Juliet, what events and quotes show the Nurse's love for Juliet?

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In Romeo and Juliet, an event that shows the Nurse's love and concern towards Juliet is when the Nurse tells Romeo in no uncertain terms that if he should lead her into a fool's paradise or try to trick her in any way, then it will be an evil thing to do to any woman.

But first let me tell ye, if ye should lead her into a fool’s paradise, as they say, it were a very gross kind of behavior, as they say. For the gentlewoman is young, and therefore, if you should deal double with her, truly it were an ill thing to be offered to any gentlewoman, and very weak dealing.
(act 2, scene 4, lines 162–167)

With these forthright words, the Nurse is showing her love and concern for Juliet. She wants nothing but the best for a young girl she treats like her own daughter.

She's understandably worried, then, that Romeo's not being serious in his professions of love for Juliet. If he isn't, then there's every danger that Juliet will end up being hurt, and that's the last thing the Nurse wants to happen.

In fulfilling the promise she made to Romeo the night before, Juliet has sent the Nurse to him to make sure that he's managed to find a friar to perform their wedding ceremony.

It's evident from her remarks in the above excerpt that the Nurse is every bit as keen as Juliet that Romeo has been able to do this, as this would clearly demonstrate Romeo's commitment to going through with the wedding. Once again, we are presented with clear evidence that the Nurse genuinely loves and cares about Juliet.

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What are some concrete examples of the love Juliet's nurse exhibits toward Juliet in Romeo and Juliet?

The Nurse demonstrates love to Juliet by working to make Juliet laugh, keeping Juliet's secrets, and looking out for Juliet's best interests.

Readers see the Nurse make Juliet laugh in both Act I.iii and Act II.v. In the first act, the Nurse teases Juliet about when she was weaned as a young toddler. She tells a tale of Juliet falling down, during which the nurse's husband had warned Juliet that one day she would "fall" for a man. The play on words relates to the discussion they are about to have regarding a potential marriage to Paris.

In Act II, the Nurse returned from speaking with Romeo about Juliet's marriage to him, and she just kept changing the subject avoiding actually answering Juliet's questions about what Romeo said. This playful banter in eventually overcome, but the purpose served is to build humorous supense. This playing relationship can only happen between people who honestly love each other, otherwise there would be no forgiveness for teasing.

In the same scene from Act II, the Nurse demonstrates that she will keep Juliet's secrets because we never saw her stop to tell Juliet's parents, and she slyly brought a rope ladder so that Romeo could sneak into Juliet's room that night. Throughout the rest of the story, the secret romance is never revealed to anyone by the Nurse.

Next, Juliet seeks the Nurse for counsel:

How shall that faith return again to earth(215)
Unless that husband send it me from heaven
By leaving earth? Comfort me, counsel me.

The Nurse offers counsel even when it is hard to hear. Juliet wants nothing to do with Paris, and the Nurse knows it, but the Nurse makes the recommendation to marry him anyway because she cares about Juliet. She doesn't want to see Juliet in anymore trouble. Furthermore, she helps Juliet see the good in Paris:

Then, since the case so stands as now it doth,
I think it best you married with the County.
O, he's a lovely gentleman!

It is a true and genuine love that the Nurse has for Juliet.

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