The Poem

(Critical Guide to Poetry for Students)

Except for its brevity, Emily Brontë’s lyrical poem “Remembrance” contains all of the characteristics of an elegy. Its subject is the mourning of the death of a beloved; the poem is meditative; the poet attempts to come to terms with the death of her lover from the past; finally, there is some evidence that the poet accepts her loss and finds solace, at long last.

The persona of the poem may or may not be Emily Brontë herself. Biographers have tried unsuccessfully to identify a young man from her youth whose death could have later given occasion to the writing of the poem. Whatever the case, the first person narrator addresses her dead lover, mentally though not literally, at his graveside some fifteen years after his burial. She remembers and thus observes a “remembrance” as she comes to terms with his death, trying—still trying—to give him up.

The first two stanzas are each questions addressed to her only lover, many years dead. “Have I forgot to love thee?” she asks, after letting the reader know that he is “cold in the dreary grave.” Her first problem is to determine if enough time has passed to “sever” her loss. Whether she has forgotten to love him is an ironic question, since the act of remembering him is in itself an act of love. She then, in the second stanza, asks herself if her thoughts still “hover” to his grave far away.

In the third stanza, she asks her dead lover to forgive her if she...

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