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What does the quote, "Stupid men are the only ones worth knowing, after all" mean in Pride and Prejudice?
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The quote "Stupid men are the only ones worth knowing, after all" in Pride and Prejudice is Elizabeth's sarcastic remark expressing her frustration with the complex social rules surrounding marriage. She feels bitter about Mr. Bingley's rejection of her sister Jane and suspects Mr. Wickham's mercenary intentions. Elizabeth's sarcasm highlights her resentment towards the men she has recently encountered.
Elizabeth and her aunt have been discussing the topic of mercenary marriages. Mrs. Gardiner suspects that Mr. Wickham may have mercenary (purely financial) motives for his pursuit of Miss King, who recently inherited ten thousand pounds. However, Elizabeth points out that Mrs. Gardiner had formerly cautioned her against marrying Wickham precisely because he has no money! It appears, then, that a man who marries while he has no money is imprudent, but a man who marries someone with money is mercenary. It seems like precisely these kinds of lose-lose social rules that make marriage so difficult. Elizabeth is also rather bitter right now because things did not work out for her favorite sister, Jane, and the man she loves and hoped to marry, Mr. Bingley . She's fed up, in general, with men and money, and, in her frustration, she says that "'Stupid men are the only ones worth...
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knowing, after all.'" Of course, she does not mean this—she is irritated byMr. Collins's stupidity, not attracted to it. But her conversation with her aunt has uncovered a set of tricky double-standards regarding the conduct of marriageable young men and women, and this is a touchy topic for Elizabeth right now.
Elizabeth is being very sarcastic when she
says the line above. She speaks the line while conversing with her Aunt
Gardiner in Gracechurch Street. She traveled to Gracechurch Street with Sir
Lucas and his second eldest daughter Maria en route to Kent to visit Charlotte
in her new home with Mr. Collins at Hunsford. However, immediately before
leaving Longbourn, Wickham became engaged to Miss King who recently inherited
£10,000. Before Elizabeth speaks these lines, she and her aunt are conversing
about whether or not Wickham has shown himself to be mercenary and Miss King
has shown herself to be foolish. Mrs. Gardiner is very concerned about Wickham
only marrying Miss King for her money. However, she hesitates to think poorly
of him because she knows he grew up in Derbyshire, her own home county, along
with Mr. Darcy. Hence, Elizabeth is speaking of Mr. Darcy and Mr. Bingley, who
has just slighted Jane, when she replies, "I have a very poor opinion of young
men who live in Derbyshire; and their intimate friends who live in
Hertfordshire are not much better" (Vol. 2, Ch. 27). Her lines show the
resentment she feels towards both men.
She next says:
Thank Heaven! I am going to-morrow where I shall find a man who has not one agreeable quality, who has neither manner nor sense to recommend him. Stupid men are the only ones worth knowing, after all. (Ch. 27)
In these lines, she is referring to Mr. Collins. It is Mr. Collins she sees
as wanting both sense and manners and being very stupid. However, she is making
the sarcastic claim that "stupid men are the only ones worth knowing" because
so far he is the safest man she has met. He has slighted no one; he has not
proved to be mercenary; his only fault is his ridiculousness. Hence, again, her
sarcasm in this particular line shows her
bitterness towards the three men she has met recently.
However, interestingly, throughout the rest of the story Elizabeth's sarcastic
line does not prove to be true. Later, both Mr. Darcy and Mr. Bingley prove
themselves to be very much worth knowing, and Mr. Collins proves himself to be
not worth knowing at all when he writes a letter slandering the reputation of
all the Bennet daughters after Lydia's elopement with Wickham.