". . . She don't act as a vife, Sammy."
"Don't she, though?" inquired Mr. Weller, junior.
The elder Mr. Weller shook his head, as he replied with a sigh, "I've done it once too often, Sammy; I've done it once too often. Take example by your father, my boy, and be wery careful o'widders all your life, specially if they've kept a public-house, Sammy."

In this quote from Charles Dickens' The Pickwick Papers, the elder Mr. Weller imparts a cautionary piece of wisdom to his son, Sam. Reflecting on his own marital experience, he warns about the perils of marrying widows, particularly those who have managed a public house. His lament highlights his perception that widows, having adapted to a life of autonomy and independence, may struggle to fit into the traditional role of a wife. This moment is marked by a humorous yet cynical tone, showcasing the elder Weller's regret and serving as a comic critique of societal norms regarding marriage and gender roles during the Victorian era. The narrative illustrates Dickens' skill in blending humor with social commentary, shedding light on the complexities of human relationships.