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The evolving relationship between the monster and Conor in Patrick Ness's A Monster Calls

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The evolving relationship between Conor and the monster in Patrick Ness's A Monster Calls transitions from adversarial to nurturing. Initially, the monster challenges Conor through tough-love lessons, fostering self-awareness and understanding of his conflicting emotions. As Conor grows more self-aware, the monster's guidance becomes gentler, helping Conor accept difficult truths and forgive himself. By the novel's end, their bond resembles a parental connection, symbolizing protection and love.

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In Patrick Ness's A Monster Calls, what theme is presented through the monster and Conor's changing relationship?

In Patrick Ness's A Monster Calls, the evolution of the relationship between Conor and the monster reflects the theme of self-awareness. From the outset, the monster serves as a guide and tough-love mentor to Conor, teaching him through experiences that sometimes result in bad behavior (wrecking grandmother's apartment and beating up Harry), but simultaneously imparting wisdom about the 'whats' and 'whys' behind these actions. For example, the monster poses questions during his stories that help Conor understand his own conflicted emotions and desire to hurt others:

Humans are complicated beasts, the monster said. How can a queen be both a good witch and a bad witch? How can a prince be a murderer and a saviour. . . How can invisible men make themselves more lonely by being seen?

By encouraging Conor to be self-reflective, the monster empowers him with tools to come to terms with the hard truths of his life.

Initially, the relationship seems quite adversarial in certain ways because Conor doesn't understand the message in the monster's stories and continues to act out and be sarcastic. As Conor's self-awareness grows, however, the monster's language softens. For example, the monster helps Conor forgive himself for some of his previous destructive attitudes and behaviors, saying, “You were merely wishing for the end of pain. . . Your own pain. An end to how it isolated you. It is the most human wish of all.” The monster wants Conor to be free from denial and to learn to discriminate between lies, constructed reality, and truth. 

By the end of the novel, the relationship has echoes of a parental connection: "He [Conor] faintly felt the huge hands of the monster pick him up, forming a little nest to hold him. He was only vaguely aware of the leaves and branches twisting around him, softening and widening to let him lie back." By releasing his fear of the truth, Conor feels more secure in who he is and recognizes that he is, in fact, loved, symbolized through this final, tender image of protection.

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In A Monster Calls by Patrick Ness, how does Conor's relationship with the monster evolve?

At first, Conor thinks that the monster's nothing more than a dream. There's certainly something dream-like about how the monster first appears to Conor: by the moonlight near the old church and graveyard. Under the circumstances, Conor can be forgiven for thinking that the strange apparition outside is all just a dream. But once he realizes that the monster's real and means him no harm, Conor gradually starts to develop a close relationship with him.

The monster is incredibly wise, and through the stories he tells Conor, imparts his wisdom on matters of life and death. In turn, this allows Conor to gain a greater degree of self-understanding, making him better able to deal with the various issues that cause problems in his life, such as his mother's terminal illness. The relationship between monster and boy becomes one of mentor and student, of a moral guide leading his young charge to face up to the truth of his situation, thus liberating him.

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In A Monster Calls by Patrick Ness, how does Conor's relationship with the monster evolve?

Initially, Conor views the Monster as a threat. It appears to want to eat him and it makes threats about what will happen should Conor not share a "fourth" tale with him, which Conor interprets as a threat on his life. Conor also derides the Monster's interest in telling stories, since he views stories as a childish pastime.

However, as the novel progresses, Conor comes to view the Monster's visits as a comfort. The stories entertain him, and he learns about the nature of life and the human condition from them. When he believes the Monster will not appear to him again, he is afraid because he genuinely enjoys the visits.

The Monster ultimately becomes Conor's greatest comfort. It confesses at the end that it came to "heal" Peter and prepare him for the loss of his mother. The threats the Monster made about Conor having to share his tale were not about literally eating Conor, but about the guilt he felt eating him up emotionally.

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In A Monster Calls by Patrick Ness, how does Conor's relationship with the monster evolve?

When Conor first meets the monster, he believes the monster is his nemesis; however, over the course of the novel, the monster goes from being threatening to becoming a comfort to Conor as Conor faces his mother's impending death from cancer. When Conor first meets the monster, the monster is menacing: "the monster roared even louder and smashed an arm through Conor's window, shattering glass and wood and brick" (page 8). When Conor says he is not afraid of the monster, the monster replies, "You will be...Before the end" (page 9). Then, Conor remembers the monster trying to eat him alive before he wakes up from his nightmare. 

In the middle part of the book, the monster says that it wants to talk with Conor. When Conor asks the monster what it wants from him, the monster replies, mysteriously, "It's not what I want from you, Conor O'Malley...It is what you want from me" (page 34). Conor still feels strangely calm around the monster, even though he is having a nightmare. The monster tells Conor that it will tell him three stories and that Conor will tell him the fourth. The monster says, "You know that your truth, the one that you hide, is the truth that you are most afraid of, Conor O'Malley" (page 38). The truth that Conor hides is that his mother is sick with cancer and that Conor has no one around him to comfort him, as his relationships with his father and grandmother are not good.

In the end, after Conor tells his story, the monster comforts him. Even though Conor wants the monster to heal his mother, the monster says, "I did not come to heal her... I came to heal you" (page 193). By forcing him to listen to its stories and tell his own, the monster has healed Conor and prepared him for his mother's death.

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