Ordinary People

by Judith Guest

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Ordinary People presents two intertwined narratives from the perspectives of Conrad "Con" Jarrett and his father, Calvin "Cal" Jarrett. Set in the Chicago suburbs during the 1970s, the novel opens with the aftermath of Jordan "Buck" Jarrett's accidental death and Conrad's subsequent suicide attempt. Throughout the story, Conrad, Calvin, and Beth Jarrett grapple with these devastating events.

The narrative starts with Con scheduling an appointment with his new outpatient psychiatrist, Dr. Berger, following his release from a mental hospital. In the first chapter, it's clear that Con continues to battle anxiety and depression. He feels disconnected from his family, friends, teachers, and even his past self. He resents his commitments to the swim team and past friendships, finding solace only in singing with the choir. Con's journey to recovery is a central theme in Ordinary People. Through his interactions with Dr. Berger and Jeannine Pratt, Con begins to express his buried emotions, seek reconciliation with his parents, and heal from the survivor's guilt over his brother's death. He learns to acknowledge his shortcomings, anxieties, and fears, and to take positive steps regardless of them. Additionally, he comes to terms with others' limitations. A pivotal moment occurs when his friend Karen takes her own life, triggering a wave of guilt in him. During a session with Dr. Berger, he realizes he is not to blame for Buck's or Karen's deaths and that it's acceptable to be himself. His relationship with his mother remains unresolved, and when his parents separate, she leaves without a farewell. Con experiences deep anger and disappointment over this, but with Berger's guidance, he tries to accept that she loves him as much as she can. The Epilogue reveals that Con's ultimate lesson is understanding that his mother does indeed love him, and he loves her in return. By the novel's conclusion, his sense of alienation diminishes, and his connections with family and friends are revitalized.

In Chapter Two, the narrative shifts to Cal's perspective. It becomes evident that Con and Beth's relationship is fraught with tension, leaving Cal caught in the middle. This situation is particularly challenging for Cal, who experienced isolation during his childhood, having grown up in an orphanage. He only achieved success as a tax attorney with the help of his mentor, Arnold Bacon. However, Cal's relationship with Bacon ended when he met his wife, Beth, as he struggled to balance his affections between the two important people in his life.

Cal faces a similar dilemma as he tries to mediate between Beth and their son, Con. He views himself as a "fence-sitter," hesitant to acknowledge that Beth and Con are on opposing sides. Cal's worry for Con increases after Con's suicide attempt, while Beth interprets the attempt as a personal affront. The contrasting ways they address Con's emotional issues eventually lead to Cal and Beth's separation. This separation is also driven by Cal's growing awareness of his unmet needs within the marriage.

Cal's longing for a family, after a childhood marked by isolation, led him to overlook his own needs to maintain family harmony. When Buck dies and Con is hospitalized, the family's underlying conflicts become unavoidable. Cal realizes he can't rely on Beth for solace, as each family member becomes isolated in their grief. Despite Cal's efforts to keep the family united, they prove fruitless. However, the novel concludes with a moment of reconciliation between Cal and Con. For the first time, Cal finds his own voice and expresses his true feelings, moving beyond his previous tendency to be overly accommodating towards Con.

In Ordinary People , Beth stands as the third...

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significant character, though her presence is somewhat vague throughout the story. This is primarily because the narrative offers only glimpses of her character through the perspectives of Calvin and Conrad Jarrett. Beth is portrayed as a perfectionist, a trait that prevents her from forgiving others. She interprets Con's suicide attempt as a personal affront and struggles to comprehend his emotional turmoil. Her enigmatic nature and inconsistencies attract Cal, yet her refusal to communicate her feelings makes it impossible for them to resolve issues in their relationship. By the novel's conclusion, Cal realizes that Beth cannot come to terms with Buck's death and yearns for life to return to its pre-accident and pre-hospitalization state. As this is unattainable, she distances herself from Cal, blaming him for his depression and transformation due to their family's tragedy. Cal perceives that Beth's perfectionism and practicality are mechanisms to mask her fear of losing control. Con deduces that Beth's overbearing mother, Ellen, likely influenced her to become private, yet Beth herself is unwilling or unable to understand or express her emotions. Consequently, Cal and Con must come to terms with her departure after Cal suggests seeking a marriage counselor. Despite still loving Beth, they are compelled to acknowledge her limitations.

As the novel nears its end, Con forms a bond with Jeanine. They are brought together by their mutual experiences with depression and family challenges. Con's resilience and dedication face a trial when he learns that Karen, another school friend, has taken her own life. His guilt and sorrow over Karen and Buck's deaths threaten to consume him. However, with Dr. Berger's guidance, Con finally manages to express his anguish instead of suppressing it, experiencing a sense of relief as Berger had anticipated throughout their sessions. Berger tells Con, "people with stiff upper lips find it hard to smile," underscoring the importance of emotional expression.

As Con's story reaches its peak with his intense display of pain and anger, the narrative of Beth and Cal also hits its high point as they clash over Con's issues. Beth declares she will never forgive Con for his suicide attempt, confessing she only sees it through the lens of how it affects her, admitting she can't love him the way he desires. Cal understands that Con's breakdown has profoundly impacted Beth. Despite knowing that something must be done, he hesitates to confront the looming end of their marriage. Their nightly arguments reveal that their love isn't sufficient to save their relationship. Beth departs for a European trip without saying goodbye to Con, and when Con expresses bitterness over his suicide attempt, Cal becomes angry, no longer avoiding confrontation. Cal recognizes that Beth longs for things to return to how they were before Buck's death and Con's breakdown, and her inability to accept these losses has irreparably damaged their marriage. When Con assures Cal he is not disappointed in his father's love, they share an embrace.

The novel concludes with an epilogue following Con's farewell to Dr. Berger. He visits his friend Lazenby in an effort to mend their friendship, which has been strained by their shared grief over Buck. Con recalls discovering all his old school drawings when he and Cal moved, realizing his mother wouldn't have preserved them so carefully if they held no significance for her. As Con and Lazenby head off to play golf, the story ends on a hopeful note for Con and his relationships with others.

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