Family Relationships
The Illusion of Family Unity
Within the walls of the Deacon household, three bustling generations of the Bett-Deacon family cohabit, their interactions a tapestry of complex bonds. Dwight, the patriarch, frequently praises the virtues of family life, often waxing lyrical about the unity that knits kin together. He declares that those who aren't part of a "little family circle" truly miss out on life's essence, and boasts of the "joys of family life as Ina and I live it," along with the familiar refrain that "there is no place like home." Yet, the family's actions tell a different story. For fifteen years, Dwight and Ina have relegated Lulu to the role of domestic servant. Ina scolds her for burning Monona's toast, while Dwight chastises her for spending his money—a mere 25 cents—on fresh flowers.
The Tyranny of Family Pride
Dwight wields the concept of family sanctity as a tool to bend others to his desires. He commands Lulu to keep silent about the possibility of Ninian's bigamy to avoid besmirching the family's reputation: "What about my pride?" he demands of Lulu. "Do you think I want everyone to know that my brother did a thing like that?" Despite his lofty words, Dwight is convinced Ninian concocted the tale of a previous marriage as an escape from life with Lulu. With feigned piety, he promises that he and Ina will support Lulu in her distress, for "the family bond is the strongest in the world," though he is secretly content to have her back in his kitchen. Lulu, however, sees through his facade and remarks, "I know you’d sacrifice Ina, Di, mother, Monona, Ninian—everybody, just to your own idea of who you are."
Cracks in the Family Facade
The rest of the household is not untouched by this dissonance. Di reveals to Lulu the genuine reason for her desire to elope with Bobby: love is not her driving force, but rather, "I could love almost anybody real nice that was nice to me." In Act II, Scene I, Monona, the outspoken child, delivers an honest assessment of the Bett-Deacon family’s dysfunction with her declaration, "I hate the whole family," to which Mrs. Bett responds with resigned agreement, "Well, I should think she would."
The Oppression of Women
Gale's Insightful Depiction
Simonson eloquently noted that Gale regarded her novella, Miss Lulu Bett, as a candid reflection of the women shackled by domestic burdens of her era. This conviction translated seamlessly into the play adapted from the novella. Within this theatrical world, Gale constructs a household dominated by women, save for the patriarch, Dwight, who holds the reins of authority. He dictates financial matters—admonishing Lulu for daring to spend her own money—and enforces arbitrary rules, such as withholding Ninian’s address from Lulu and prohibiting her from opening a letter in his absence. His dismissive offhand remarks reveal a condescending view of women; he repeatedly claims they lack the ability to generalize, and when Ina urges him to reach out to Ninian about a prior marriage, he scornfully quips, "Isn’t this like a couple of women?"
The Rebellion of the Oppressed
Amidst this stifling environment, it falls upon the most subjugated—Lulu and Mrs. Bett—to challenge Dwight’s oppressive grip. Mrs. Bett boldly defies him by opening Ninian’s letter, satisfying her curiosity and standing as the lone supporter of Lulu. She affirms her belief in Ninian’s affection for Lulu and endorses Lulu’s brave decision to leave the household. Lulu’s rebellion takes shape through her resolute demand that Dwight contact Ninian, even as he threatens to evict her. Before Ninian’s return, Lulu declares her resolve to...
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leave Dwight’s home "for good." Through these acts, Lulu discovers her voice, advocating not only for her rights but also implicitly for those of the other women. She confronts Dwight, saying, "You’re one of the men who can smother a whole family and not even know you’re doing it."
Lulu's Yearnings and Realizations
Beyond her tumultuous interactions with Dwight, Lulu expresses a yearning for a life beyond her current confines. She confides in Ninian about her aspiration for education and her dream of a fulfilling job where her contributions are valued. To Cornish, she laments her limited skills, confined to merely cooking, with no means to earn her livelihood. Lulu’s awareness of her life’s deficiencies highlights the domestic trap that ensnared countless women like her during that time.
Love and Marriage
In the heart of Miss Lulu Bett, love scarcely appears as the thread binding the tapestry of marriage. Dwight and Ina find their bond not in romantic fervor, but in shared self-satisfaction and a collective disdain for others, particularly Lulu. Their outward expressions of admiration are hollow, lacking any foundation of true appreciation for each other's virtues.
By contrast, the connection between Lulu and Ninian is woven from entirely different threads. The play leaves us pondering Ninian's motives for clinging to Lulu, except perhaps out of a desire to rescue her from the stifling environment he perceives in the Deacons’ household. Yet Lulu’s motivations are crystal clear. She confides in Cornish, "You see Ninian was the first person who was ever kind to me. Nobody ever wanted me, nobody ever even thought of me. Then he came. It might have been somebody else. It might have been you." For Lulu, the simple acts of kindness and consideration—elements she had long been starved of—transform into the essence of love.
Comedy of Manners and Satire
The subtitle of the published play, An American Comedy of Manners, signals the ironic tone of the work. The term “comedy of manners” implies sparkling drawing-room repartee, but the verbal interactions in this middle-class domestic setting, presumably in Zona’s Gale’s native Wisconsin, achieve their comic effect by means of their utter banality. In the first scene, for example, Dwight puts on patriarchal airs yet harps on the food and the cost of small items and then declares: “The conversation at my table must not deal with domestic matters.” Ina’s frequent (mis)corrections of Dwight’s mispronunciations are an amusing inversion of the sophisticated wordplay in traditional comedies of manners. The first two scenes of act 2 contain sequences of virtually identical dialogue spoken by the same characters, a forceful yet humorous illustration of the smallness of these characters’ lives. Thus, the play might well be described as a satire on small-town American, middle-class life, emphasizing the limited horizons, lack of imagination, self-delusion, excessive concern for what others might think and the selfish pursuit of petty comforts.
Family Relationships and Dynamics
Family relationships are an interesting feature of this play. Well before psychologists had explained certain behaviors, Zona Gale demonstrated them in action. Dwight and Ina make the most basic mistakes of parenting in the inconsistency with which they make and apply rules for their daughters, “performin’ like a pair of weathercocks” in Mrs. Bett’s view. Dwight and Ina do not serve as role models, as their own behavior contradicts the standards they expect of the children. Sibling rivalries are shown, notably between the daughters Di and Monona, but also between brothers Dwight and Ninian and to a lesser extent between Ina and Lulu. Mrs. Bett gives little indication that she is anything other than a dependent, querulous old woman—until she twice releases a brief torrent of pent-up memory that hints at a generation’s hardship that enabled the middle-class comforts available to her remaining children.