In "The Boss Came to Dinner," there is a stark contrast between the Shamnaths generation and that of the mother. The Shamnaths value sophistication, class, and outward image, which is made clear as they entertain Mr. Shamnath's boss for the evening.

The Shamnaths find Mr. Shamnath's elderly mother to be an embarrassment to be hidden away from visitors. She comes from a rural background with little education. Her value system is entirely family-oriented as she sacrifices everything for her son. In contrast, the Shamnaths are wholly focused on material wealth, status, and perception. They see the elderly mother as an obstacle to their desires and a stain to be hidden.

Despite her poor treatment, the mother prays for her son's long life and success. She is unwaveringly devoted to his future and is willing to sacrifice her dignity to ensure his happiness. This devotion is not mutual. Mr. Shamnath and his wife are not dedicated to family and are unwilling to sacrifice anything for this older generation.