The Hug

by Tess Bond

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Last Updated September 5, 2023.

The Significance of Simple Gestures

The narrator of the poem is moved, all of a sudden, to hug her companion, and, to her, it feels like something cosmic and huge; she even compares it to a shooting star. She continues to hold on to her companion even after the hug itself seems to be finished. When the speaker hugs the homeless man, something similar happens. During the hug, she feels that they could already be "eternal," as though something deeply significant, again, is happening. Even though she knows one person intimately and she does not know the other person at all, both of individuals seem to present equal opportunities for meaningful connection.

The Selfishness of Love

The speaker is surprised when her companion so easily agrees to sharing her and her hugs with someone else. She thought that her companion would react jealously and certainly "tell [the man] how it is"—that she belongs to them and only them. She believes that real love makes a person feel that their beloved is meant for them only. Lovers hold on to this feeling, she thinks, so when her companion is quick to agree that she can hug the homeless man, the speaker begins to questions whether her companion actually loves her.

The Transcendent Power of Meaningful Connection

In the final stanza, the speaker says that when she and the homeless man eventually break off their hug, the button on his coat will have left an "imprint of a planet" on her cheek. This suggests that she will be affected by this hug in many ways after it is finished. Physically, yes, she will have a small circular mark on her cheek, but that will fade quickly. However, given the earlier references to stars and eternity in relation to hugs, this mark also implies a sort of cosmic significance (leaving a "planet" on her cheek), suggesting that the speaker will be emotionally affected by simple gesture for a long time to come.

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