The poet-narrator says that Art of Love is a set of entertaining and lighthearted instructions for successfully undertaking the game of love. Seduction rather than deep emotional attachment or marriage, the narrator says, is the poem’s theme.
Rome is full of beautiful young women, so, the narrator says, one looking for love need only go where the women are. The narrator indicates that the likeliest places to meet potential lovers are temples, law courts, the forum, the theater, the races, the public baths, and dinner parties. Timing is important. Beware of occasions on which clever women will demand gifts. Once found, the woman must be enticed to look favorably on the lover.
Be confident, the narrator says, for all women want to be loved. Even if they do not want a lover, they will appreciate attention. Win over the lady’s maid to advance your cause. A man should seduce the maid first, if he thinks doing so may help. He should write many letters promising his beloved anything. He should plead eloquently and persist through constant refusals. The narrator next offers advice on personal hygiene and fashion in dress. He tells of the usefulness of wine in warming hearts, and he explains how to handle a lady’s husband. Weeping and pallor may gain a lady’s pity, but timidity will never gain her favor. The man must take the initiative, and the woman will be glad of an excuse to give in. In short, a man should be adaptable and quick to seize any opportunity to win favor.
The narrator gives advice for holding a woman’s...
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