Why does the speaker of "The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock" tell us more than once that the women "come and go / Talking of Michelangelo"? Also, what does Prufrock long to ask?

Expert Answers

An illustration of the letter 'A' in a speech bubbles

The narrator, Prufrock, repeats that the "women come and go / Talking of Michelangelo" because this emphasizes how many times he has been to a party just like this one, talking about the same subjects. His life goes in circles instead of getting to a destination. He is distressed with...

Unlock
This Answer Now

Start your 48-hour free trial to unlock this answer and thousands more. Enjoy eNotes ad-free and cancel anytime.

Start your 48-Hour Free Trial

The narrator, Prufrock, repeats that the "women come and go / Talking of Michelangelo" because this emphasizes how many times he has been to a party just like this one, talking about the same subjects. His life goes in circles instead of getting to a destination. He is distressed with himself for frittering away his time at such another party instead of working on his art. It is numbing to keep going to these parties, where he says he measures out his life in coffee spoons. He feels like an insect pinned to a wall, unable to break free.

Interestingly, the speaker asks sixteen questions over the course of the poem, most of them around the theme of if he dares to "disturb the universe" by creating literature rather than simply attending events in literary and intellectual circles. He asks if he has "the strength to force the moment to its crisis."

He asks, too, if it would "have been worth while" to come back from the dead and bring a message for humankind, instead of going to these endless parties. However, he finds that

It is impossible to say just what I mean!
Prufrock questions the life he is leading and longs for a richer, more creative, and more imaginative existence, one represented by the mermaids at the end of the poem.
Approved by eNotes Editorial Team
An illustration of the letter 'A' in a speech bubbles

The speaker of "The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock” by T. S. Eliot tells us more than once that the women "come and go / Talking of Michelangelo" because he wants to convey to the reader that while the speaker/narrator is pondering life in a serious way, these women are, somewhat flippantly at a social gathering, lightheartedly moving from room to room and discussing art and may not be attuned to deeper, more important issues (or don’t care if they are attuned to them).

T. S. Eliot inserts the phrase, “In the room the women come and go / Talking of Michelangelo" at two critical junctures of the poem. The first is after the first English stanza. In the first stanza, the speaker talks of streets “that follow like a tedious argument," and also the evening spread out and likened to “a patient etherized upon a table." Therefore, it is apparent that the speaker is tired with life and even the evening about him makes him think of a person under ether on an operating table, possibly in a life-threatening situation. This sets the somewhat somber mood of this poem as the speaker, a man, thinks about his life—the past and his mistakes, the present and his inertia, and his less-than-enthusiastic view of the future. This is a counterpoint to the pleasant and cheerful evening the women are having.

The second use of the phrase is after the speaker talks about putting on a façade to ready himself to meet people in different situations. This shows the man’s misanthropic and cynical view of life and personal interactions and relationships.

The speaker also talks about there being time for “a hundred indecisions." As such, he is saying that he cannot commit to taking a stand or being resolute. It is as if he’s just rolling through life without enthusiasm and verve or the mindset to be purposeful and clear-sighted enough to make quality decisions. Therefore, he is somewhat like the women who "come and go” and engage in gentle banter as they enjoy a night out with somewhat light conversation. So, in one case the speaker is different than the women. In the other case he is a little like the women.

J. Alfred Prufrock longs to ask, essentially, “What is life all about?” In other words, “What is our purpose in all this theater or drama here on earth?” He looks at life and all its situations and relationships and strivings and wonders if it is all worth it in the end if one doesn’t have a strong purpose and a hope for the future.

The speaker wants to be bolder and more daring. He states that he is really the following type of person: “Deferential, glad to be of use, / Politic, cautious, and meticulous.” Consequently, he longs to ask the above-mentioned questions, as well as, “How can I live a less fearful life?”

Approved by eNotes Editorial Team