Henrietta’s final request is that her husband Day Lacks take care of her children. This tells that she really did care about her children, and she was selfless.
Gladys called Henrietta’s husband Day the night before Henrietta died.
She wants you to take care of them kids—I told her I’d let you know. Don’t let nuthin’ happen to them.” (ch 11, p. 86)
Henrietta was especially worried about her daughter Deborah, who was just over a year old when she died.
Henrietta had wanted to hold Deborah, to dress her in beautiful clothes and braid her hair, to teach her how to paint her nails, curl her hair, and handle men. (ch 11, p. 86)
Henrietta’s last request tells us that she cared deeply for her children, and she was worried about what would happen to them when she was not around. It also shows that she felt a deep connection with her little daughter, and wanted to see the baby grow to become a woman. She wanted to be a part of her children’s lives.
Unfortunately, the odds were against the family. Elsie had mental disabilities and was in an asylum, and she died just after her mother. Day himself later developed cancer, and Sonny went to jail for stabbing a boy. Many of the family members had health problems, including Deborah. If the family had made money off of Henrietta's cells, the story might have been much different.