What is the story of the poem "Home Burial" in terms of action/plot, conflict and character?

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Through dialogue and keen attention to tone and detail, Frost paints a haunting portrait of the effects of losing a child. In this poem, Amy is coming down the stairs when she glances back over her shoulder. Her husband realizes that their young child's grave has caught her eye, as it seems to do often.

The conversation of the couple carries the poem, and it becomes clear that the loss of their child has severed the couple's relationship. While Amy seems completely devastated by the loss, her husband's urge is to put the child in their past and move on in the present. They are grieving in very different ways, and neither one is sure how to cope with the other. It seems that Amy is grieving with others, and her husband wants her to talk to him instead:

Don't—don't go.
Don't carry it to someone else this time.
Tell me about it if it's something human.
Let me into your grief. I'm not so much
Unlike other folks as your standing there
Apart would make me out.
Amy just wants to escape from her husband and this scene. She has been carrying anger within her from the day her husband dug their baby's grave and the seemingly casual conversation he had immediately after.
The loss the couple has faced has illuminated several key differences in the individuals they are. Amy thinks her husband doesn't care enough while he tells her, "I do think, though, you overdo it a little."
The poem ends uncertainly. Amy is opening the door to leave, and her husband is threatening to follow her and bring her back "by force." Does she leave? Does he follow? Is this the end of their relationship? Will they find a way to cope with the loss? None of these questions are answered in the end.
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The main conflict is the difference between the husband's and the wife's WAYS of grieving.  The husband is stoic (and was expected to be during this time period) and is not really able to express his grief the way he might want to.  The wife is very emotional and is extremely upset that her husband is not expressing himself the way SHE wants him to.  What she does not understand is that everyone grieves very differently.  She is clearly NOT thinking about this (understandably) as she is threatening to leave her husband over his supposed lack of grief.  Frost is able to portray this difference through his use of dialogue, which is genius!  As for character, the woman is clearly grieving very openly and does not hold her grief back; whereas, the man is trying to be the "strong one" and he is trying to hold all of it in because this is what was expected of men at the time.  They were not encouraged to freely express their emotions and if they did, it was seen as a sign of weakness.

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This poem is a dramatic dialogue that takes place between a man and a woman whose child has died. The conflict between the two characters stems from the fact that the woman cannot accept the fact that the man dug the child's grave in a matter-of-fact way. After he dug the grave, he came inside, leaned the spade up against the wall, and spoke to her about the fact that their fence was rotting. The woman cannot forgive what she sees as the man's indifference to their loss.

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