What are some other examples of honor in Death and the King's Horseman apart from in the character of Elesin?
It is easy to forget the way that duty and honour are themes that apply equally to other characters in the play apart from Elesin, though of course these themes are shown to centre on him and in particular his role as the King's horseman of ritually committing suicide to be with his king in the afterlife. However, it is worth considering how honour and duty equally impact characters such as Pilkings, although this is in a very different way....
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To answer your last question first (only because it's a simple answer), Elesin is upset because the women have not clothed him in the traditional clothing of honour. Because he is going to die for honour and is being regarded as someone of honour, he needs to be treated as such, and one such important way, particularly by women, that this honour is given to him is through clothing him in special cloths.
Other characters to whom honour is important would be Pilkings, in particular. He is in a similar position as Elesin, as he needs to look good and appear honourable in front of the prince (like Elesin must for the king) and so on. Read over Pilkings' scenes, you should find a lot of desire for honour in his character. Hope that was helpful!