In "Two Kinds," by Amy Tan, what are the moments of crisis in the conflict of this story? I believe one is the piano recital; are there more?
The conflict is man vs. man, and it plays out in the story between a Chinese mother who wants her Chinese-American daughter to achieve some kind of success. Her mother only wants what is best for her daughter, but her daughter can only see her own resentment, sure her mother is trying to make her something she is not.
The first crisis of the conflict in the story is, as you mention, the piano recital. Jing-Mei has not practiced enough, and yet she somehow believes that her "prodigy" side will step in and magically smooth out the areas of the song Jing-Mei does not know. This, of course, does not happen. Jing-Mei and her mother are devastated and embarrassed by her poor performance.
There is a second moment of crisis, and it still involves the piano. After the fiasco at the recital, Jing-Mei is sure her mother will stop pushing her and that lessons will cease. However, this is not the case. At four o'clock, as Jing-Mei sits watching TV, her mother tells her it is time to practice. Jing-Mei, aware of the power she has to say "no," screams at her mother, refusing to comply. They have a terrible fight, and Jing-Mei looks for something to push her mother over the edge: she says...
'Then I wish I wasn't your daughter. I wish you weren't my mother...'
'Too late change this,' said my mother shrilly...And that's when I remembered the babies she had lost in China, the ones we never talked about. 'Then I wish I'd never been born!' I shouted. 'I wish I were dead! Like them.'
It was like I had said the magic words...and her face went blank, her mouth closed, her arms went slack, and she backed out of the room, stunned...
Jing-Mei's words start out the way many angry adolescents react to authority and their inability to exert enough power over their own lives. However, Jing-Mei is looking for a weapon, something to push her mother over the brink, to make her really angry. So she mentions the twin babies her mother had to leave behind in China, something that has haunted her mom all her life. (See "A Pair of Tickets.")
This is the second moment of crisis within their conflict: the conflict of mother and daughter, of her mother's dreams vs. Jing-Mei's own wishes. Jing-Mei delivers an emotional sucker punch that her mother is not expecting. However, instead of fighting back, Jing-Mei's mother has been touched in such a terrible way, that she loses all her fight and simply backs away. This incident hovers between them for many years.
I think you are right in identifying the piano recital as one of the key moments of conflict. This is of course a part-hilarious, part-tragic event that really brings the conflict between Jing-Mei and her mother to a head. However, you need to be aware of the far greater conflict that occurs after the piano concert in its wake. This is the final confrontation between the mother and daughter that the story has been leading up to, when Jing-Mei is so angry that she confronts her mother and says some shocking things:
And I could sense her anger rising to its breaking point. I wanted to see it spill over. And that's when I remembered the babies she had lost in china, the ones we never talked about. "Then I wish I'd never been born!" I shouted. "I wish I were dead! Like them."
This represents the real climax of the story as Jing-Mei feels a deliberate desire to hurt her mother and watch her get angry. It is this event of course that ends her mother's plans and dreams for her, and is also the first in many ways that Jing-Mei "fails" her mother over the years.