What is the main point that Olsen is trying to make with the metaphor of ironing?

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Rebecca Owens eNotes educator| Certified Educator

The metaphor in question can be summed up with the narrator's wish for her daughter in the final line of the story. She hopes that Emily will know "that she is more than this dress on the ironing board, helpless before the iron."

In other words, she hopes that Emily will become more than a conformist, that she will realize that it is she who shapes her life, not some outside, demanding and pressing force. She hopes that despite her less-than-perfect parenting and the harm she fears she has caused her daughter, Emily will discover the beauty that is within her and realize that she does not have to be what the world or her society tells her she must, no matter how much pressure is applied to her to force her to conform; Emily has the power within her to decide her own future and is not bound by her current or past circumstances--she is not "helpless before the iron," but rather, has the potential to shape her own life. The narrator only hopes that Emily sees that power within herself.

gbeatty eNotes educator| Certified Educator

The first point is that it is not a metaphor. It is literal, and that has meaning. Even though they are talking about something important to her, this woman has to work.

However, as a metaphor, it stands for the kind of life she's had. Ironing is hot and tiring, and has to be done and redone, over and over. You don't ever finish. The best you can do is get even, for a while, and the wrinkles will always come back.

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I Stand Here Ironing

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