While Winston Smith does not overtly give a specific definition of love, he does express his views regarding the concept of love and what it entails. When Winston dreams about his mother, he recognizes that she died sacrificing herself for him to live. Winston understands that his mother's sacrifice derived from loving him. He believes that she had sacrificed herself to a "conception of loyalty that was private and unalterable." This conception of loyalty and willingness to sacrifice oneself regardless of consequences fits into Winston's definition of love. Later in the story, Winston has another dream about his mother's disappearance and recalls her daily sacrifices to feed him and his infant sister. As Winston examines his dream, he recognizes that genuine love involves the ability to obey one's private standards, which cannot be altered by outside influences. Winston reasons,
If you loved someone, you loved him, and when you had nothing else to give, you still gave him love.
Winston further explores the concept of love during a conversation with Julia. Winston acknowledges that it is only a matter of time before they are arrested and tortured by the Thought Police. However, Winston and Julia vow not to betray their inherent feelings for each other. Despite their confessions, Winston recognizes the importance of remaining loyal to Julia and not allowing outside influences to alter his personal feelings for her. Therefore, one can surmise that Winston Smith's definition of love entails a willingness to sacrifice everything for someone and exercising an unalterable loyalty toward a significant other in the face of extreme pressure from outside influences.