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What is sociability? Describe a specific example of a personal interaction that took on the form of sociability. Discuss the elements and feelings that made this an example of sociability as opposed to another form interaction. Did the interaction shift in and out of sociability? How so, or why not? If present, what caused the shift/s, and how did the individuals involved respond to it/them?

Sociability is the tendency towards friendly, personable interactions. Some interactions are purely social, whereas others, which serve a specific function, such as checking out at the grocery store, may shift in and out of sociability. An example of this is an interview for graduate school. There are formal parts of the conversation, but there are also more relaxed moments where the interviewers and interviewee seek to establish a more authentic human connection.

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My experiences and your experiences with sociability will not be the same, but I can provide you with an example from my own life that might help you brainstorm.

When it comes to personal interactions, sociability is the tendency to communicate in a way that is friendly, personable, and relatively unstructured. Not all interactions take the form of sociability. This is especially true of interactions that have an explicitly functional or transactional purpose. For example, you don't interact in the same way with the cashier at the grocery store or service representative at the DMV that you do with your family and friends. You may be cordial or make polite small talk, but the purpose of the interaction is not to establish a connection with the other person.

Some interactions, however, can shift in and out of sociability. This might be true of relationships or interactions that have a dual or nuanced person. You will likely be friendlier with your regular doctor, dentist, or hair stylist than you are with other people who provide services for you. They might ask you about school or your family, and you might ask about their lives. However, the primary purpose of the interaction is still about the reason for your visit—your health, your teeth, your hair, and so on.

A recent example of an interaction that shifted in and out of sociability for me was an interview for a graduate school program. The purpose of the interview was for the interviewers to determine my suitability for the program, not to make friends with me. Because I wanted to make a good impression, I was initially very formal in my speech, body language, and so on.

However, there were still some elements of sociability in the conversation. At the beginning of the interview, we made the usual small talk about the weather and current events while everyone got settled in. There was a formally structured set of questions, but as the interview progressed, the conversation took a more personable form. This shift was likely because of the nature of the graduate program—a counseling degree.

The interviewers themselves were trained counselors, so their profession made them good conversationalists. Additionally, some of the questions asked for deep thought and reflection that required me to be somewhat vulnerable. This vulnerability changed the dynamic of the conversation, and the interviewers would sometimes refer back to my previous responses in their follow-up questions instead of reading their scripted questions verbatim.

As a result, my own body language and tone became more relaxed. This doesn't mean I chatted with my interviewers like old friends; I still maintained professionalism and occasionally shifted to more "rehearsed" responses to get important points across. However, showing my own sociability helped the interviewers not only hear about my qualifications for the program, but assess my ability to make connections as a counselor.

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