What is a quote from Romeo and Juliet describing Juliet's loyalty to Romeo?

Several quotes that show Juliet's loyalty to Romeo occur in act 3, scenes 2 and 5. In act 3, scene 2, for example, Juliet shows loyalty in her reaction to the news that Romeo has killed her cousin Tybalt:

My husband lives, that Tybalt would have slain,
And Tybalt’s dead, that would have slain my husband.
All this is comfort. Wherefore weep I then?

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Act 3, scene 2, Juliet’s Nurse informs her that Romeo has killed Juliet’s cousin, Tybalt. At first, Juliet seems to wrestle with her loyalties: should she be loyal to Tybalt, her kinsman, or to Romeo, her husband? It does not take long for her to make her choice. She tells her tears to stop, insisting that she should not be feeling “woe” but, rather, “joy” at the outcome of the fight between the two men. She says,

My husband lives, that Tybalt would have slain,
And Tybalt’s dead, that would have slain my husband.
All this is comfort. Wherefore weep I then? (3.2.115-117)

In other words, she chooses her loyalty to Romeo over the initial loyalty she feels toward Tybalt, or any other member of her family for that matter.

Much earlier in the play, even before she had exchanged vows of love with Romeo, she seems to be more loyal to him that to anyone else. From her balcony, not realizing that he watches below, she says, “be but sworn my love, / And I’ll no longer be a Capulet” (2.2.38-39). In other words, she is willing to give up her entire family, her entire life as a Capulet, almost from the first moment she meets Romeo. She says that, if Romeo is unwilling to deny his own father and give up his own name, then she will gladly give up her own so that they can be together. Juliet proves her loyalty to Romeo time and again and ultimately proves willing to fake her own death so that they can be together.

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Juliet is the picture of steadfast love and loyalty to Romeo during the short time they are together. She sticks by him even after he kills her beloved cousin Tybalt, although her first instinct is to curse him.

As he is about to leave for exile to Mantua after their wedding night in act 3, scene 5, Juliet shows that her heart will be with him at all times:

Art thou gone so? love, lord, ay, husband, friend!
I must hear from thee every day in the hour,
For in a minute there are many days ...

In other words, she wants them to stay close and stay in touch despite the distance that will be between them. This is all the more poignant, as she is the one who urges him to leave as dawn breaks, again in loyalty, as she doesn't want him discovered and killed.

Later, Juliet states definitively that she is on Romeo's side after the Nurse urges her to forget about Romeo, deny the marriage ever happened, and marry Paris, who offers her a comfortable life. This is the shrewd advice of a practical woman who been forced to get along in the world. However, Juliet rejects this advice, berates the Nurse for her hypocrisy, and repudiates her, say she will no longer confide in her:

Go, counsellor;
Thou and my bosom henceforth shall be twain.

From here on in, Juliet will turn only to the Friar for advice about how to avoid marrying Paris.

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In Act Three, Scene 5, Juliet once again demonstrates her loyalty to Romeo by cursing the Nurse, refusing to disclose any personal feelings to the woman who raised her, and mentioning that if everything fails she is willing to kill herself. After Romeo leaves Juliet's bedroom, she demonstrates her loyalty to her new husband by rejecting her parents' advice and refusing to marry Paris. After Juliet's father curses his daughter and exits the scene, Juliet seeks solace by speaking to the Nurse. However, the Nurse tells Juliet that she believes Juliet should marry Paris and forget about Romeo. The Nurse proceeds to call Romeo a "dishclout" and disrespects him in front of Juliet. Even though Juliet is extremely upset with the Nurse, she remains composed and tells her that she will go to Friar Lawrence’s cell to confess her sins and be forgiven. As soon as the Nurse leaves the scene, Juliet says,

Ancient damnation! O most wicked fiend! Is it more sin to wish me thus forsworn, Or to dispraise my lord with that same tongue Which she hath praised him with above compare So many thousand times? Go, counselor. Thou and my bosom henceforth shall be twain. I’ll to the friar to know his remedy. If all else fail, myself have power to die. (Shakespeare, 3.5.236-243)

Juliet proves her loyalty to Romeo by not only going against her family's wishes but also dismissing one of her closest allies after the Nurse offers her negative opinion of Romeo. Juliet mentions that she will never tell the Nurse how she truly feels again and is willing to commit suicide if Friar Lawrence cannot come up with a solution.

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There's ample evidence of Juliet's loyalty to Romeo, but the scene that strikes most at my own heart is the one in which Juliet discovers Romeo killed her cousin, Tybalt, but she decides to continue to love Romeo anyway.

This part of the story occurs in Act Three, Scene Two, and I believe it to be one of the most dimensional and realistic aspects of the narrative. Here, Juliet is dealing with both the death of a family member (one committed at the hand of another loved one) and the banishing of her husband. She must weigh these two acts and their contradictory nature; she must decide how to properly grieve Tybalt's death AND Romeo's exile without diminishing one or the other while acknowledging these events are inseparably linked. 

Juliet's Nurse reacts to this news very judgmentally, crying out that, "There's no trust, / No faith, no honesty in men." She then wishes that "Shame come to Romeo!" Juliet reacts immediately to this curse, stating,

Blistered be thy tongue

For such a wish! He was not born to shame.

Upon his brow shame is ashamed to sit,

For 'tis a throne where honor may be crowned.

Sole monarch of the universal earth.

Juliet is asserting her total loyalty here by scolding the Nurse for placing blame on Romeo. She reaffirms her belief that, despite what happened, Romeo is still a honorable husband. This quote makes it evident Juliet is prepared to stand by Romeo. 

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