To me, the ultimate means the best, the epitome of whatever you are considering. If it is relative, it cannot be the best as it is always being compared to something else, so it is the best only within that comparison. Therefore, if you find that the ultimate is always relative, there is room for interpretation and movement, not just one simple, ultimate answer. Life takes on a different look when you believe that everything is relative, without the hard and fast rules or lines in the sand that some people draw. More of your own judgment is required.