Desdemona's attitude toward men is arguably the most nuanced of the three. On the one hand, she defies her father and established convention in marrying Othello. On the other hand, she shows herself to be an intensely loyal, faithful wife to Othello, no matter how suspicious he gets, and no matter what he puts her through.
Initially, Emilia has an almost puppy-like devotion to Iago. She's being cynically used by her husband; she's an unwitting pawn in his wicked plot. Emilia carries out Iago's instructions to the letter, such as when she steals the handkerchief from Desdemona. She doesn't have the faintest idea why Iago wants her to do this, but she's so devoted to her husband that she doesn't even dream of questioning his motives.
Yet once Emilia finally becomes aware of Iago's plot and of the depths of his sheer wickedness, she shows immense courage in calling him out for his actions, and this costs her her life.
Bianca, being a courtesan, is considered to be outside the bounds of respectable society. To some extent, this gives her a greater degree of control over her life. As the only bond that connects her to men is financial, she can afford to keep them at a distance. Yet she allows her emotions to get the better of her when she becomes fiercely jealous of Cassio. Despite her profession and the world-weary cynicism that comes with it, Bianca still seems to feel that she needs a man in her life, even if there's no real future in such a relationship.
Emilia is a very strong willed woman, and while she was willing to get involved with her husband's machinations to a point in order to please him, when she saw the completely terrible things he had done, she was willing to call him out on it publicly, even when he was threatening to kill her. Emilia is cynical and worldly and is distrustful at best of her husband.
On the other hand, Desdemona is so in love with her husband, she's willing to take whatever he dishes out to her, no matter how much it hurts or humiliates her. She loves him to the point of complete blindness that it is often inferred that she doesn't struggle too much when he kills her. If you want to see a truly heart breaking rendition of this, rent the 1995 movie version of Othello.
Bianca is a courtesan, which is sort of similiar to a prostitute so she sees most men accordingly, though she has a soft spot for Cassio. She allows Cassio to repeatedly tease her with the promise of marriage, though she should know better.
Contrast Desdemona, Emilia, and Bianca in their ideas about men and their relationships with their lovers in Othello.
Desdemona is absolutely devoted to Othello. Although she's a highly intelligent, spirited, independent-minded woman, Desdemona remains fiercely loyal to her husband, despite his growing jealousy and suspicion. However, her loyalty is borne out of love, not the dictates of convention. After all, we shouldn't forget that Desdemona defied her father's wishes in marrying the Moor. Having...
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made her choice, Desdemona is more than happy to live with the consequences. Her loyalty to Othello is total, which makes Iago's snide insinuations and false accusations of infidelity all the more perverse.
Emilia also displays great loyalty to her husband, the abominable Iago. However, she patently lacks Desdemona's intelligence and astute judgement of character. Emilia naively assumes that Iago's always looking out for her best interests. So when he asks her to retrieve the handkerchief from Desdemona's boudoir, she does so without hesitation. Emilia adopts the traditionally subservient attitude expected of women in her society. The husband is lord and master in his own home, and his wife is duty-bound to obey. Yet Emilia obeys Iago, not simply out of duty, but out of (misguided) love. She really does love Iago and will do anything for him, even if it means becoming an unwitting pawn in a dastardly revenge plot.
Bianca is Cassio's jealous lover. It is implied, but not explicitly spelled out, that she is a courtesan, or high-class prostitute. Thanks to Iago's deviousness, she becomes as convinced as Othello that Cassio's been carrying on an affair with Desdemona. Theirs is a tempestuous relationship, to put it mildly; but on Bianca's part at least, there appears to be some depth of feeling. Bianca's horrified reaction at Iago's stabbing of Cassio appears to confirm that she does harbor some genuine concern for her lover.
Contrast Desdemona, Emilia, and Bianca in their ideas about men and their relationships with their lovers in Othello.
Desdemona, Emilia, and Bianca have different opinions about men and these opinions are manifest in the types of relationships that the three women have with their lovers. Desdemona feels a sense of pity for Othello after he reveals to her the hardships of his early life. She recognizes the fragility of Othello's heart and character, and she tends to his weaknesses by devoting herself to him so that he knows that she truly loves him. Their relationship, as a result, is one of mutual adoration.
Emilia, on the other hand, sees Iago as her provider and superior. Their relationship is closed and volatile--Iago hides his schemes and intentions from his wife even though he uses her as a pawn in his plans.
Finally, Bianca breaks the preconceived notions of "the prostitute" and falls in love with Cassio. Her view of love is naive, and she does not accept that Cassio has no loving feelings towards her. Their relationship is superficial, one that exists for pleasure only.