What are the opinions of Laertes and Polonius about the love between Hamlet and Ophelia?

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In Act 3, Scene 3, both Laertes and Polonius give Ophelia some advice about her relationship with Hamlet.  Their advice is not altogether dissimilar, but Laertes is much more optimistic about Hamlet's intentions than Polonius is.  First, Laertes tells her,

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In Act 3, Scene 3, both Laertes and Polonius give Ophelia some advice about her relationship with Hamlet.  Their advice is not altogether dissimilar, but Laertes is much more optimistic about Hamlet's intentions than Polonius is.  First, Laertes tells her,

For Hamlet, and the trifling of his favor,
Hold it a fashion and a toy in blood,
A violet in the youth of primy nature,
Forward, not permanent, sweet, not lasting,
The perfume and suppliance of a minute,
No more. (3.3.6-11)

In other words, she should think of Hamlet's feelings for her as a passionate flirtation only.  It will be only temporary and, though sweet, it will last no longer than a minute because it is just a youthful fling.  He further cautions her that "[Hamlet's] will is not his own, / For he himself is subject to his birth" (3.3.20-21).  Laertes means that Hamlet will likely not be able to choose his marriage partner himself because he is of royal blood; Laertes does not believe that Hamlet would be allowed to marry Ophelia even if he wanted to.

Polonius is a little more forward than Laertes, and a little more pessimistic about Hamlet's motives.  He, too, believes that Ophelia needs to forget about Hamlet and move on, but he is less willing to see Hamlet as another innocent youth caught in the throes of young love and much more inclined to see him as someone out to get Ophelia into bed.  He says,

In few, Ophelia,
Do not believe his vows, for they are brokers,
Not of that dye which their investments show,
But mere implorators of unholy suits,
Breathing like sanctified and pious bawds
The better to beguile.  (3.3.135-140)

Polonius advises her to remember that Hamlet enjoys a great deal more freedom than she does.  (Subtext: Hamlet is a young man with royal blood and sleeping with someone will have no effect on his reputation or marriage prospects.)  He cautions her against believing Hamlet's vows of love (even if they seem honorable) because his intentions only seem pure when they are really lustful. 

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