I assume the purpose of this discussion is to choose a topic that is difficult to debate in a positive manner. The idea that any woman is unable to study and marry simultaneously sounds like it came from the Victorian era when females were considered so delicate and emotionally unstable that two important events were not possible for them to undertake. I think the idea is ridiculous. Having been involved in several relatives' recent weddings, I understand that the ceremony and preparation are emotionally trying and may conflict with school and studies, but a woman with a good head on her shoulders should be able to deal with both. Good luck gathering some positive examples.