Siblings... Why do my brother and sister get along so well and annoy me? I mean what can I do to shut them up?!  

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Idea 1: Instead of asking them to let you in to their thing, maybe you can invite them into yours.

Idea 2: Try to reduce the importance of the interactions you have with your brothers in your own mind. This isn't to say that your relationship with them will be less important, but each separate interaction can be less important and less frustrating.

 

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It sounds like you are feeling left out. I am guessing that based on your age and their age, they see you as an unknown entity. They don't relate as well to you because they are closer in age to one another and have grown up close. Try joining them in activities they enjoy, getting to know them better, and letting them see you in a different light.
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Sibling relationships are so hard...

Obviously, this is difficult to do, but the major solution here other than what has already been said is to wait.  Situations change and people change and therefore relationships change.  If you're 15 and your sister is 12, it could be that soon she'll be more interested in teenage girl type things than in hanging out with her brother.  Then she might turn to you for advice and friendship and such.

My point simply is that at this age things change quickly and what is bothering you now may be gone before long.  Of course, it is not easy to be patient...

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