Do you believe that Mary Maloney was a good wife before the murder?
It all seems to depend on what you mean by "good." Mary was obviously a devoted wife and completely good in the sense of being faithful to her husband. But there was something about her that made him want to get out of the marriage, even though he was well aware he was doing a cruel and immoral thing. Dahl illustrates clearly what that "something" was.
"I'll get it!" she cried, jumping up.
"Darling, shall I get your slippers?"
"I think it's a shame," she said, "that when a policeman gets to be as senior as you, they keep him walking about on his feet all day long."
"Darling," she said. "Would you like me to get you some cheese? I haven't made any supper because it's Thursday."
"If you're too tired to eat out," she went on, "it's still not too late. There's plenty of meat and stuff in the freezer, and you can have it right here and not even move out of the chair."
"Anyway," she went on, "I'll get you some cheese and crackers first."
Mary is too attentive, too dependent, too needy, too loving, too devoted, too clinging, too anxious to please. Her husband doesn't like all this slavish devotion. He is obviously a different type of person. He is not used to sharing his feelings with other people, even including his wife. He works hard all day and has to deal with dozens and dozens of people of all types. When he gets home at night he would like to have a couple of drinks and just unwind. But Mary has been alone all day, thinking about him, and just waiting for him to return. Patrick is not having an affair. He just wants more freedom and more privacy.
"Lamb to the Slaughter" is reminiscent of John Collier's story about marriage, "The Chaser." In Collier's story the old man who sells love potions warns his customer that he will get sick of marriage in time and may want a "chaser" that will poison the woman he is now so anxious to marry.
"She will want to know all you do," said the old man. "All that has happened to you during the day. Every word of it. She will want to know what you are thinking about, why you smile suddenly, why you are looking sad....How carefully she will look after you! She will never allow you to be tired, to sit in a draught, to neglect your food. If you are an hour late, she will be terrified. She will think you are killed, or that some siren has caught you."
(By "siren" the old man means another woman.)
Unfortunately, what is true of the marriage between Mary and Patrick Maloney and true in what the old potion seller is foretelling is that marriages do tend to get stale. The honeymoon period does not last, in spite of the fact that young newlyweds are sure it will last forever. Having children changes things too. The fact that Mary is expecting to have a baby in about three more months is not a source of delight to her husband. It only means that he will be tied closer to this claustrophobic domesticity. Perhaps it is the prospect of having a crying baby in the house that drives Patrick to make the drastic decision to leave his wife. If he is going to get a divorce, it would probably be better to do so before the baby is born rather than afterward. But for him to divorce her at such a time seems so outrageous to Mary that she obeys a sudden impulse to kill him. The frozen leg of lamb is a convenient weapon; it might also be considered a symbol of the cozy domesticity that is driving Patrick crazy. We see that he drinks more than usual on that particular evening, working up the courage to tell his wife what he has to tell her. However, we can well imagine that if he did not ask for a divorce, and if he had continued to stay at home and adhere to the same routine for the rest of his life, he would start drinking more and more heavily when he came home, and in time he would have a real drinking problem. The marriage could only get worse.
Mary is a "good" wife, but she has not been a smart wife. She ought to have realized that there needs to be space in marriage. In his well-known book The Prophet, Khalil Gibran writes:
Let there be spaces in your togetherness, And let the winds of the heavens dance between you. Love one another but make not a bond of love: Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls. Fill each other's cup but drink not from one cup. Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf. Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone.
Judging from the information that we get directly from the text, Mary Malone is characterized as what would be considered a "good" wife, both directly and indirectly.
Direct characterization of Mary as a good wife:
For her, this was always a wonderful time of day. She knew he didn't want to speak much until the first drink was finished, and she was satisfied to sit quietly, enjoying his company after the long hours alone in the house.
Here the narrator describes Mary's behavior according to the standards of 1953; the year when the story is published. As modern readers, we may see Mary as a co-dependent, submissive and even ridiculously docile woman, but keep in mind that gender roles change throughout time. She is therefore a woman of her time and circumstance: the nurturer, the nourisher, the lover, the companion, and the mother to be. She is also her husband's biggest fanatic
She loved the warmth that came out of him when they were alone together. She loved the shape of his mouth, and she especially liked the way he didn't complain about being tired.
Arguably the indirect characterization shows us a Mary Malone whose actions are very telling. Surely, she loves her husband and wants his company.Yet, when she snaps and kills her husband right as he tells her that he plans to leave her, we see a Mary that will do whatever she needs to do to survive and bypass the horrors that would await her if she were to get caught. The fact that she was so quick to figure out what would be a perfect plan also leads us to wonder if there is another layer to Mary. Regardless, prior to that dramatic moment, Mary is definitely the epitome of the "good" woman.
Yes, I do believe that before the murder Mary Malonelay was a good wife. Dahl does not spend much time characterizing Mary or Patrick, so the reader has to assume quite a bit. The assumptions for Mary are easy, because Dahl portrays her as the stereotypical perfect doting wife. She stays at home, and is patiently waiting for her husband whom she practically worships. Whether it be cooking or cleaning, Mary exists to serve Patrick and loves doing it. I have pictures in my head of those 1950's illustrations where the wife is cooking in a full sun dress and high heels. Even after Patrick tells her that he wants to end the relationship, she doesn't freak out and start screaming or crying. She goes downstairs to pick out something for dinner. Granted she is in shock, but that makes her response all the more convincing that she is a calm, good natured wife. She is likely operating on muscle memory and instinct, which to me shows that she is normally like that.
Before the murder, Mary Malonelay seems to be a normal housewife. She's six months pregnant, and devoted to her husband Patrick. She seems like a perfectly good wife as it is not her, but her husband, who is cheating on his partner. While her emotional outburst, causing her to strike her husband to death, is somewhat justifiable, it is still murder and caused by an intense buildup of anger in a short amount of time. However, we can still see Mary acting as a good parent (not wife), as after the murder, the first thing she thinks about is the child's wellbeing. This causes her to cover up the murder and create an alibi.