In Act 2 of Romeo and Juliet, why does Juliet fear that Romeo will think she is "too quickly won"?

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In Romeo and Juliet, Juliet fears that Romeo will think she is capricious and flighty if he believes she is "too easily won". Obviously, Romeo was enamored with her, but with the whirlwind romance the two embarked upon (married two days after having met, dying together three days later), it is easy to understand why Juliet would fear that Romeo thinks she's a bit flighty with romance.

In Act 2, she worries that jumping into the relationship too quickly will actually be off-putting to Romeo because he may fear that she'd fall just as quickly out of love or that she is simply immature and doesn't understand the depth of emotion that love is (to be fair, since both of the characters were very young, I believe neither of them fully understood any of this as both were too immature, and it was supremely irresponsible of the Friar to marry them). Her worries are obviously pacified, as Romeo is clearly not concerned with how quickly their romance blossomed.

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Hmmm, I never thought that Juliet actually "feared" Romeo's thoughts about that subject.  Juliet knows that Romeo is already in love with her.  For goodness sake, he has been spying on her even under penalty of death!  Juliet is simply flirting with Romeo here and, I believe, jokingly makes that comment.  Let's review the context, though, just for clarification:

Oh gentle Romeo, / If thou dost love, pronounce it faithfully. / Or if thou thinkst I am too quickly won, / I'll frown, and be perverse, and say thee nay, / So thou wilt woo; but else, not for the world. (2.2.98-102)

You see, obviously Juliet has already given Romeo the "go ahead" in this case.  She is joking about propriety here:  what is usually done in her time period.  Usually men "woo" women: spend time courting them and winning their love.  It's the equivalent of Juliet saying something like, "Okay, if playing hard to get is what you want, then I'll give it to you."  She clarifies her comment at the end of the quote above by saying that, unless he tells her otherwise, Juliet would never tell Romeo "no."

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