how would you describe Stanley & stella's relationship?Stanley and Stella seem to be the example of a typical abusive partnership. your perspectives on their relationship would be extremely welcome.

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mwestwood | College Teacher | (Level 3) Distinguished Educator

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Stanley's crude, brutish behavior is part of the "colored lights" of their relationship.  His aggressive masculinity is something to which she is attracted; in a way, she finds his brutishness somewhat stimulating, actually.

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litteacher8 | High School Teacher | (Level 3) Distinguished Educator

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I do not think it is a typical abusive relationship (if there is a typical one). Many abused women are timidly submissive even when they are not with their husbands. Stella is much stronger than than that, even though she is clearly subjugated by him.
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anujumairah | Student, Undergraduate | (Level 1) Honors

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There is actually domestic violence in their relationship (Stanley giving a loud whack on Stella's thighs + hitting her when she is de facto carrying his baby) but Stella is that submissive/docile that she easily succumbs to her husband. Given that particular time/setting of the play (after World War 2), there was a lot of turmoil (men were quite belligerent) and women were heavily dependent on their consorts (financially). Stella accepts this violence of Stanley, and even goes to the extent of saying that there must be some adjustments to make of a marriage a happy one. Stella dotes on Stanley to the point of hero-worship. Their relation borders mainly on the animalistic nature (Stanley throwing a packet of red meat, having sexual undertones + Stella crying on his lap + breaking the lights on the wedding night). 

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