Granny Weatherall is first jilted by George many years before when he fails to show up for their wedding. On this occasion, she was left alone with a priest and it leaves an indelible mark on her. Throughout the story, Granny—now aged significantly—continues to be haunted by the incident. She thinks over and over again about George, and tries to reassure herself by thinking of her husband Jimmy. She also comforts herself with religion, saying at one point:
"God, for all my life I thank Thee. Without Thee, my God, I could never have done it. Hail, Mary, full of grace. "
In the present, Granny is dying, and she struggles to communicate. Throughout the story, she tries to express various concerns with the people around her. She wants to express frustration with the doctor, for instance. When she realizes she is dying, she recalls how she wants to give her daughter an amethyst set and other unfinished tasks that she will now be unable to do. Granny Weatherall is unable to express her desires. Absence and failed communication reign in her final moments, just as they did as her first jilting. She is not at all ready to die:
"Her heart sank down and down, there was no bottom to death, she couldn’t come to the end of it. The blue light from Cornelia’s lampshade drew into a tiny point in the center of her brain, it flickered and winked like an eye, quietly it fluttered and dwindled."
Granny focuses intently on this "blue light," but it is weakening. This is deeply disturbing to her. She feels that "this darkness would curl around the light and swallow it up." She asks God to give her a sign. However,
[f]or the second time there was no sign. Again no bridegroom and the priest in the house. She could not remember any other sorrow because this grief wiped them all away. Oh, no, there’s nothing more cruel than this—I’ll never forgive it. She stretched herself with a deep breath and blew out the light.
Granny Weatherall's expectations are failed once again in this second "jilting." She trusted God, and in her eyes, he has abandoned her. Granny waits for him to come for her, to comfort and guide her in death, but he does not come. Just as she was left alone with a priest by George, she is left alone once again by God. At the end, she suffers this horrible pain, this abandonment, that leaves her desolate.