Hello. What are the characteristics of a good girl to marry?

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This really depends on your personal culture, beliefs, and ideals.  For instance, some cultures look for a woman who is happy to stay home and clean the house.  She must be prepared to raise the children, be a good cook, and take care of the household.  Another culture might not value this type of woman at all.  Some cultures look for a woman who is independent and self-sufficient.  A woman who has her own career or stands up for herself might be far for valued than a woman who is meek and mild.  There really isn't one set of values for a good wife.  It depends entirely on what is right for you and your culture.

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I think that the girl and guy should be compatible.  You need to have someone that you enjoy being with and getting along with.  I know it sounds cliché, but this really should be the person you want to spend the rest of your life with.  You have to be best friends with the person, but more than that.  You two have to have good communication and a deep trust.  If you find a girl like that, that is who you should marry!

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I would suggest that a good person to marry is one who accepts you for who you are--flaws and all. I would also suggest that a good person to marry is one who balances out you as a person (kind of like the "opposites attract theory). Outside of those things, I have to agree with the points brought up in the earlier posts.

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The best person to marry is one you have developed a deep, caring, loving relationship with.  One that you can be friends with, trust, and one you care about more than yourself.  If you've got those things, life will be great!

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This depends so much upon what your cultural expectations are.  Here in the US, we would expect that a good woman to marry would be one who had the same kind of attitudes that you do towards things like children and how to handle money and things like that.  But people from different cultures will surely have different expectations.

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This really isn't an academic question. The answer depends entirely on your own tastes, interests, and personality. The main way to discover whether someone would be a good life partner for you is to spend a few years really getting to know the person well, to make sure that you are compatible on major life decisions and beliefs, and wait a few years before having children to make sure that your careers and relationship are stable.

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