I hate people who blame everyone else for their own failures. At some point, each person has to recognize that the only locus of control they have is of themselves. They do not have the ability to control anyone else, but they CAN control how the deal with whatever life hands them. In order to make it in this world each person has to own up to the ultimate responsibility he has in making the most of his life. He must stop blaming the government, his parents, the bad school he went to, the economy ... the list goes on.