In Hamlet act 3, why is Hamlet so brutal to Ophelia?

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teachersage eNotes educator| Certified Educator

There's much debate as to why Hamlet is so brutal towards Ophelia. First, she enters as he is contemplating suicide, so he is not in a good state of mind. Second, we know this is not the first time he has been brutal, for as she gives back the gifts, she says 

Rich gifts wax poor when givers prove unkind.
Hamlet at this point also doesn't know who to trust. He realizes that the Danish court is rife with corruption. He is right not to trust Ophelia, because she has been told by her father and Claudius to speak to Hamlet while the twosome hide and spy on the conversation. Polonius even sets up the scene by giving Ophelia the "prop" of a prayerbook as if it was little play, saying:
'Tis too much proved, that with devotion’s visage
And pious action we do sugar o'er
The devil himself.
 
Although some of his behavior is an act, Hamlet's mental state has become more and more frenzied as he realizes that Claudius almost certainly murdered his father, and as he, for the first time, truly understands the depths of depravity all people, including himself, are capable of. Evil is no longer abstract for him, but something that has entered the bosom of his own family and that he recognizes in himself. 
 
Further, Hamlet is increasingly disgusted with his mother for so quickly marrying Claudius. He projects the idea of his mother's infidelity onto women in general, including Ophelia. A Freudian reading argues that he is desperately repressing his own Oedipal desire, which was enacted by Claudius, to kill his father and marry his mother. Hamlet represses his sexual desire by rejecting all women. He also thinks, as he indicates in the following line, that he will soon murder Claudius, for he says "all but one" married person will live. In rejecting Ophelia, he may be protecting her from the ugliness of what it to come. He says: 

 I say, we will have no more marriages. Those that are married already, all but one, shall live.

Hamlet thus has many reasons for speaking brutally to Ophelia: his own suicidal, frenzied state of mind, his distrust of anyone at court, his anger at and repressed sexual desire for his mother, a conviction that all of humankind is corrupt (which inspires him not to want any more marriages), and possibly a desire to protect Ophelia from the coming upheaval as he avenges his father's death. 

 

 
susan3smith eNotes educator| Certified Educator

Hamlet is so brutal to Ophelia because he cannot trust her.  In Act 3, Hamlet and Ophelia are on stage together for the first time.  Sadly, however, their meeting is a set up, devised by Claudius and Polonius to determine the cause of Hamlet's seeming insanity.  Polonius is trying to prove that Hamlet is insane because he is heartbroken after Ophelia, as Polonius instructed, broke up with him.  Claudius suspects that Hamlet may know something about the death of his father, and is worried that Hamlet may suspect Claudius of foul play.

When viewed in this light, it becomes clear that much of Hamlet's anger is directed not at Ophelia but at the eavesdroppers.  While he tells Ophelia repeatedly to "get thee to a nunnery," he calls Polonius a fool and threatens Claudius' life.  He seems to be well aware that the conversation he is having with Ophelia is not a private one.

Ophelia begins the meeting by returning the tokens of love that Hamlet had given her.  Hamlet reacts with pain and astonishment.  He immediately asks Ophelia where her father is, and she lies, telling him that Polonius is at home.  Hamlet knows then that Ophelia has chosen to side with her father.  Although Ophelia is not trying to hurt Hamlet, she does so by being so obedient to her father.

We can easily see why Hamlet is so cruel.  Here he is with a murdered father, his mother married to the man who murdered him, and his girlfriend breaking up with him and reporting to her father all that he says and does.  Hamlet reacts as many young men would--with cruel words designed to make Ophelia suffer as he is suffering.