explain why the heroes in western stories are rarely married and why Crane's use of marriage is central to his theme
One reason the typical western hero is rarely married is that it is a dangerous job. The west was a lawless place. Thus, it was not the kind of place a man would settle to begin a family. Also, what woman would settle down with a man who risks being murdered every single day?
Because the west is often depicted as having been lawless and wild, it is ironic that Potter would choose to get married. Here is where his marriage ties into the theme of domestication. Here is a man who has devoted his life to trying to instill order and law in Yellow Sky, which outside of a few run-ons with Scratchy, seems to be a pretty peaceful place to live. However, by taking a wife, Potter is bringing even more order and domestication onto himself. His wife comes from a much larger city with different customs and expectations. So Potter will likely find himself trying to not only instill law and order on the town but on his own life as well.