The Best Way To Find Yourself Is To Lose Yourself In The Service Of Others

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Mahatma Gandhi says, “The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others.”  Define this quote.

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Service is a defining and fulfilling enterprise which can help you to see that "you" are not delineated by an identity, but defined by ability, compassion, connection and love.

That's how I would expect Gandhi to expand on this particular quotation.

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Some ancient philosophers believed that the highest and most essential purpose of human beings was to be virtuous, and Ghandi seems to be agreeing with this idea. He seems to define virtue as selflessness and altruism. . By doing good to others, we are most essentially ourselves.

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When you are serving others you learn about yourself in the process. Think about some of the service activities you may be involved in. What qualities does it take to be a part of that activity? If you serve in a soup kitchen you must be pleasant to the clients and willing to do hard work like preparing the large meal or cleaning up afterward; you must learn compassion for the clients who find themselves in the food line each night; you must tap into your humility and gratitude in the fact that you are probably coming from better economic circumstances than the clients. The experience is about more than just "showing up" to do the job.

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This is something very similar to what Jesus said in gospels. If a person want to find his life, he must lose it. Gandhi probably got it from the gospels. The point is that finding your life is a byproduct of service and not a goal in and of itself. When we serve people, then we will begin to find what we were meant to do.

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This means that Gandhi believes that the true core of a person is the part that is not selfish and which works for others.  He is saying that the essence of what we really are (the thing that we have to find) is caring for others.  If we act selfishly, we are not acting as our true selves.  This is a very idealistic way of looking at what human beings truly are.

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To me, this means that in order to be the best person you can be, you should focus on finding ways to serve others. In serving others, you find out more about yourself and help others in the process. Being selfless can often be the best way to be happy.
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