Can someone explain the meaning of the quote "to be fond of dancing was a certain step towards falling in love"?

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Formal dances are a crucial part of the social scene in Pride and Prejudice. In such a straight-laced society, this was one of the few opportunities for men and women to get together (respectably, at least). Dancing is presented in the book as a kind of courtship ritual, the necessary prelude to a married relationship.

In Georgian England, if you wanted to enter into a respectable marriage—as just about everyone in Pride and Prejudice does—then it was considered essential to be able to dance. Men and women alike would spend hours learning the finer points of dance steps and dance etiquette. This would allow them to show themselves off to prospective marriage partners at formal dances, their dancing skills being widely seen as a physical embodiment of their character. It's no exaggeration to say that, at that time and in that society, the ability to dance was seen as an expression of a person's individual worth, and that's certainly the impression given by Jane Austen in Pride and Prejudice. For instance, the fact that the oily and unpleasant Mr. Collins is positively hopeless on the dance floor speaks volumes about his character.

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Beautiful!  I love that quote.  Put yourself in the shoes of a Victorian lady.  The only time she can really be close to a man is when dancing.  These days, we notice we are falling in love when we like being near a person.  In those days, dancing was how you were near people.  When a lady enjoyed dancing, she would spend time with gentlemen.  Spending time in close quarters with gentlemen, when both people are dressed up and at their most attractive, can certainly lead to feelings!

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A predilection for dancing shows a willingness in the participant to involve himself with his partner.  At the most basic level, a gentleman who is fond of dancing shows a willing attitude toward getting married or falling in love.  Someone who does not want to dance at all reveals a reluctance to get involved in the first place. 

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