BULLYING (please give your opinions) What is causing bullying? What is being done for it?

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I agree that bullies are a problem and no one really does much about them.  Too often, schools and parents just consider bully behavior a part of growing up.  This is not true.  If we ignore cruel behavior, we are accepting it.  Children have to be taught tolerance for one...

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I agree that bullies are a problem and no one really does much about them.  Too often, schools and parents just consider bully behavior a part of growing up.  This is not true.  If we ignore cruel behavior, we are accepting it.  Children have to be taught tolerance for one another, and adults have to address bullying from both ends: teaching bullies how to behave toward others, and teaching the bullied how to react.

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Bullies are frequently motivated by feelings of frustrations and negativity. They don't like other people, and they feel as if others don't like them. They lash out in an attempt to hurt the other and in doing so assuage the feelings of negativity and powerless ness in themselves.

Both the American Psychological Association and Enotes have some more information.

http://www.apa.org/news/press/releases/2010/07/bully-victim.aspx

 

 

 

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bullying

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bullies

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I am not sure of the cause of bullying, it seems to come from some need to try and prove to someone else that your are better than they are. As far as what is being done about it, I think that one thing is awareness that it happens and then addressing it as soon as you become aware of it.

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Especially when I was living in Japan for my childhood, it was a serious problem at schools. The leadership didn't really do anything and expected it to go away or just take care of itself. It takes a school effort to confront it and deal with the negative effects from it and it requires constant monitoring and follow-up.

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I think that bullying is caused by two things:

First, I think it is caused by a lack of empathy for others.  They think that only their own feelings are important.

Second, I think that it is caused by a somewhat natural human tendency to dislike people who are in some way different than us.  We pick out things we think are important (what clothes you wear, how you act) and persecute those who do not have those things.

So I think it's an innate human tendency to dislike different people added to self-centeredness that causes bullying.

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