Sonnet 35, “No more be griev’d at that which thou hast done,” is written to a young man, the poet’s friend and nominal addressee or auditor of sonnets 1 through 126, by far the largest section of Shakespeare’s sonnet sequence. The friend presumably is the “Mr. W. H.” of the inscribed dedication of Thomas Thorpe’s 1609 printing of the sonnets. This mysterious figure’s identity has never been incontrovertibly established, although the scholarly consensus has focused on two candidates: Henry Wriothesley, third earl of Southampton (1573-1624), and William Herbert, third earl of Pembroke (1580-1630), both of whom were patrons of the poet-dramatist.
The true identity of the young man is of relative unimportance critically; in fact, some scholars have suggested that the youth might even be an idealized literary figure rather a real person. However, Sonnet 35 argues, as do some related sonnets, that the friendship is at times strained and certainly less than idyllic, giving it the semblance of an actual relationship. Although the young man’s looks bear the stamp of perfection, he is not without character flaws. This poem arises from some unidentified hurt inflicted on the poet by the friend, the source of a momentary estrangement that is dealt with in Sonnets 33 through 42.
In Sonnet 35, the friend is grief-stricken by his trespass, and the poet attempts to assuage his friend’s guilt through clever sophistry, reasoning that he...
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