Elizabeth Gilbert, a journalist and short story writer, had just turned thirty when she went through a very difficult divorce that led to a debilitating depression. When she began dating a new man, she thought her life was finally changing for the better. The man, however, proved to be less than what Gilbert was looking for, and the experience sent her back into the throes of depression. Those life-changing events drained her of all energy and motivation, so she decided to make drastic changes to her lifestyle. Gilbert's recovery process is chronicled in her best-selling memoir, Eat, Pray, Love: One Woman's Search for Everything Across Italy, India and Indonesia.
For her plan to return to mental and physical health, Gilbert divides the next year into three sections, each section four months long. For the first four months, she devotes herself to simple pleasures. This corresponds to the “Eat” portion of the memoir. She flies to Rome, where she surrenders to physical pleasures, such as tasting the great food and drink that only Italy can offer. She tries her hand at learning Italian and even flirts with some of the local men whose romantic language soothes her aching heart. But at the end of the fourth month, she finds that she is still haunted by depression. So she continues forward with her plan.
Her next stop is a sacred ashram (or temple) in India, where, under the tutelage of a wise and aged guru, she explores her spiritual side. Gilbert spends long hours sitting in meditation, sometimes practicing strict silences and taking only short amounts of time to focus on her physical needs. For the third part of the story, the one that corresponds to “Love,” Gilbert travels to Bali, Indonesia. There she meets an Australian who will eventually become her husband.
Eat, Pray, Love (2006) struck a nerve in the reading public. The memoir proved so popular, it remained at the top of the New York Times best-seller list for more than a year. The memoir has also been produced as a movie, slated to appear in 2010, staring Julia Roberts.
Elizabeth Gilbert’s Eat, Pray, Love (2006) is a memoir about her emotional breakdown and subsequent healing process (she does not, however, divulge the real names of some of the people involved). She was a successful writer who enjoys, along with her husband, a New York lifestyle that many people dream of. But after many years of what her acquaintances consider a flourishing marriage, she finds herself wishing she were not married. She asks for a divorce, believing that her husband will agree to this and that they will part as friends. To her surprise, this does not happen.
Her husband is against parting. Even when he admits that the divorce is inevitable, he insists on claiming almost all of their joint possessions and accumulations as well as money she might potentially make in the future. The divorce proceedings drag on and send Gilbert into a long bout of depression, which makes her question her self-worth.
In the middle of her depression, she meets and falls in love with an actor named David. He is performing in a stage adaptation of a short story Gilbert wrote, and she feels they were made for one another. She has never been so much in love. She soon discovers, though, that the timing of the affair is all wrong. She leans on David too much to ease the depression that her divorce has caused. David is like a drug, she says. He makes her feel so good that she becomes addicted to him. The more he gives her, the more she wants and needs him. Her need weighs on him so heavily that he begins to withdraw. His pulling away from her does no good for Gilbert because his leaving makes her lean on him more intensely. She wants David to ease her depression for her, not knowing then that she must heal herself before she can love.
The relationship between Gilbert and David eventually collapses, which wounds her again for a short period of time. Finally she decides that she has to do something for herself. She asks herself what it is that she wants to do. First, as silly as it sounds to her and to her friends, she wants to learn Italian. She has always loved the language, so she signs up for a class. She also wants to create a spiritual space in her life, so she searches for and finally finds a guru who will guide her. Then she wants to travel, but she does not have the money to cover that expense. When she is offered a writing assignment in Bali, she jumps on the chance. In Bali, Gilbert meets an old man who is...
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