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Has the full responsibility for child guidance shifted from parents to early childhood...
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This needs to be changed to the Teachers Discussion Forum! You will get many passionate responses, I am sure!
My personal response to your question would be that no, full responsibility for child guidance has not shifted from parents to early childhood professionals. My qualification to that response would be that the level of responsibility assumed by any given parent always has and always will vary from complete apathy toward the child to what is currently called the "helicopter parent" who is overly protective.
There certainly is a perception that more parents are not as involved in making themselves a part of their childrens' upbringing as would have been the case in years past. Personally, I fear there is validity to this perception and I don't like the societal changes that I see behind it in terms of impact on families and children. However, there do seem to be some instances where children may be better served by early childhood professionals than by individuals who don't have appropriate parenting skills. As educators, we struggle with the students who come to us from those kinds of backgrounds.
Posted by stolperia on August 28, 2011 at 11:41 PM (Answer #2)
I think it really varies. There are certainly parents who do not seem to care (or do not know how to care) about their kids' development. On the other hand, though, there are so many parents who feel like they have to micromanage everything about their kids' lives.
I wonder if this all comes from the prevalence of the idea that there is a science to raising children. Because we are told that there is a right way to raise kids, we react in one of two ways. If we think we are capable, we try to control our kids' lives to make sure they are raised right. If we don't think we're capable, we give up and leave it to those who (we are told) are experts.
Just a thought...
Posted by pohnpei397 on August 29, 2011 at 3:22 AM (Answer #3)
High School Teacher
As a parent, I would like to say "no". As a teacher, I must say "yes". There are many reasons for this, two of the most popular being: parents are too busy; and parents simply do not care any more.
I can stand proud and say that I did raise my children- not leaving it in the hands of early childhood (as competent as many are).
I have to say the thing I hate hearing most is, "What is wrong with the kids today?"
My answer? There is nothing wrong with the kids today. It is the fault of the parents- the kids do not know any better.
Posted by literaturenerd on August 29, 2011 at 3:39 AM (Answer #4)
High School Teacher
As a teacher, I have to agree with this to some degree. I think the biggest reason for the change in responsibility over the past three or four decades is the fact that many more mothers are now employed, and they no longer have as much time as the housewives of old who were rarely away from their children when they weren't in school. Many more families are now single-parent than before, leaving another void when it comes to nurturing many young children.
Posted by bullgatortail on August 29, 2011 at 6:30 AM (Answer #5)
Middle School Teacher
Posted by litteacher8 on August 29, 2011 at 11:30 AM (Answer #6)
I think it depends on the parent. As an assistant teacher I have watched many parents drop their kids off at 6 am and pick them up at 6 pm, at as young as 3 yrs old. This is especially sad when the teacher is incompetent or unkind to the children. Lots of parents seem to rely on teachers for advice, even if the teacher knows less than they do about raising kids. On the other hand, I've seen plenty of parents who are so particular and demanding that the teacher could not possibly do it all without completely ignoring the other kids. Personally, I think it is tragic when parents leave their children to be raised by a teacher whether it be daycare or a private school, there is no way that any teacher no matter how talented could raise an entire classful of kids successfully.
Posted by munmunlil on August 29, 2011 at 6:53 PM (Answer #7)
Certainly the family is a microcosm of the society. In America, there is a growing number of citizens who want Big Brother government to control their lives. Having the bureaucracy of school caring for the children is part of the people's voluntary relinquishments of their personal freedoms and responsibilities. How much easier is it to burden the development of children to their teachers?
All that is needed is to look again at those children in little brown uniforms, taken from their parents so that they could learn to march in the Germany of the 1940s
Posted by mwestwood on August 30, 2011 at 3:29 PM (Answer #8)
One issue in the teaching field is that too many responsibilities have been shifted from students and parents, and then placed onto the teacher. From what I can see, the grade level doesn't matter. The tone of education reform puts all of the burden on teachers. There are too many factors beyond a teacher's control: the child's nutrition, attendance, sleep patterns, and many other home life factors. But, a teacher is expected to get all students on the same level without these circumstances ever being considered. Education reform mentions nothing about what students and parents should do; excepthow they should continue to evaluate and recognize the teacher's shortcomings.
Posted by megan-bright on September 27, 2011 at 1:57 PM (Answer #9)
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