Can we discuss if girls are better than boys?Does anyone agree with the statement above?

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William Delaney | (Level 3) Distinguished Educator

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All living creatures, including humans, are the way they are because of adaptation through natural selection. Desmond Morris has written many interesting books on human evolution, explaining why women have evolved one way and men another. Richard Dawkins, the most eminent living Darwinian biologist, stresses that evolution does not necessarily make creatures "better." Mankind is not gradually evolving towards perfection, towards the creation of Superman and Superwoman. Man is just adapting to changing conditions for the sake of survival and reproduction. It is interesting to see how girls and boys, women and men, have evolved in different ways over thousands of generations of Homo sapiens. It is also interesting to speculate about how they might change in the future. But they will probably always need each other, and so they ought to try to get along with each other. Like, the fundamental things apply as time goes by. 

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literaturenerd | High School Teacher | (Level 2) Educator Emeritus

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I, also, cannot agree with the statement. Men and women are simply too different to be judged in that way. Think about it this way: apples and oranges are both fruit (in the same way men and women are human beings). Unfortunately, the two simply cannot be judged against each other given their genetic differences. Any "suggestions" made would simply be too subjective.

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wannam | High School Teacher | (Level 3) Educator

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No, I do not think the statement is true.  There are certainly difference between men and women, but these differences don't make one better than the other.  Women might be naturally better at some things, but men are naturally better at other things.  For instance, men and women think differently.  Women are better at multi-tasking because they can think about many different things at once.  Men tend to focus on one thing at a time.  This makes men better than women at focusing on a single task.  Women have trouble only thinking about one thing.  Their minds tend to wander to other topics even while working.  I think men and women each have their strengths, but one sex is not inherently better than the other. 

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bullgatortail | High School Teacher | (Level 1) Distinguished Educator

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I had a sexist, gender conscious, male-hating female principal who would probably agree with your statements. She believed that male teachers were only good for coaching (boys' teams but not girls' teams) and handling male-oriented classes like shop, agriculture and auto mechanics. She maintained different rules for male and female teachers, and she represented the worst aspects of a school administrator. Your simplistic idea that boys are inferior to girls is a type of reverse-discrimination that used to be prevalent in the minds of men. I try to live by the dictum that all "people" are created equal, and try to treat all my students--black, white, male and female--fairly. I would agree, however, that female students are more serious than the boys I have taught over the years, and girls have consistently earned higher marks in my English classes. Of course, I have also witnessed an increase in female "macho" attitudes, and misbehavior in the classroom and physical altercations are now more likely to come from female students than males.  

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Most comments show women being different from men.  If we look at a Third World country where women die more often in childbirth than men and where women are not allowed to be educated, do we then say that men are better than women?  I don't think that we can say who is better or worse based on effects that are societal more than they are innate to one sex or the other.

I think that women and men are different in some ways and that there should be no value judgements attached to the differences that do exist.

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William Delaney | (Level 3) Distinguished Educator

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The word "better" in the initial question is kind of ambiguous. If you are a girl, would you rather have been born a boy? If you are a boy, would you rather have been born a girl? If so, why? If not, why not? If you were going to have only one child, would you rather have a boy or a girl? Why?

It is always hard to separate the subjective element from the objective truth. I note that most girls who answered the question think that girls are obvioiusly "better" than boys, whereas most boys think that boys are obviously "better" than girls. What is the objective truth?

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William Delaney | (Level 3) Distinguished Educator

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This has been the most popular discussion I have ever seen on eNotes. I wonder why. I would like to point out that the original question was not about whether men were better than women or vice versa; it was only about whether girls were better than boys. I would like to offer my opinion. Some girls are better than some boys, and some boys are better than some girls. Isn't that obvious? I don't mean just that boys are better at some things and girls better at others. I mean that some girls are better as persons than some boys and vice versa.

 

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wordprof | College Teacher | (Level 1) Educator Emeritus

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There is something naive about this assertion.  First, you separate humans by their gender difference, then ask if they are different. Two wise quotations to share:

1.  A difference that makes no difference is no difference (this is germane to social equality questions)

2.  No taxonomies are innocent (in other words, a person who starts dividing people by gender has a motive in mind.)  Wordprof

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gracious15 | Student, Grade 12 | (Level 1) Salutatorian

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    I don't think women are betters than men but different in creation. Sure women can do things better than men and men can do other things better than women. Some can do both but I think they sholud not be compared.

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najm1947 | Elementary School Teacher | (Level 1) Valedictorian

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The post 30 by Caglatekeli gives some of the factors that make them 'more than equal' because 'they have been created like that in view of the believers' and 'have evolved like that in view of the evolutionists'.

Men & women and boys & girls have to play their distinct role in the society due to difference in their sex hormones and the capabilities of the neural & sensory systems. Pushing them to perform same role does not seem to be fair.

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najm1947 | Elementary School Teacher | (Level 1) Valedictorian

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Men and women are made for each other. If some one can prove that human race can survive without the other, I would vote for the survivor to be better.

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thewanderlust878 | Student, College Freshman | (Level 3) Salutatorian

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As a female, I definitely lean towards the statement that girls are better than boys, but only as a biased opinion simply to empower myself :) In all actuality, no one is "better" than anyone else. No male is better than any female, no black person is better than any white person, no short person is better than any tall person. It's just a fact of life that we are all equal, even though that concept is difficult for some to grasp. 

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ik9744 | Student, Grade 9 | (Level 1) Valedictorian

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Girls and Boys shouldn't be compared at all, they should be equal. No matter what we all have the pros of being a girl or boy and the cons. I'd get why girls would start a conversation about this, is even today men still think they have more power then the girls. Which explains the presidents of the United States being men. Just recently there was a girl president in some other country. I'll list some pros and cons about being girls and boys. Girls are weaker then boys, while the boys are naturally stronger. Girls are more gifted in music wise then boys, but some boys still perfect in music. Girls are naturally more polite then boys and more artistic. Boys are more talented in rough sport then girls. A lot of boys care about their grades but some they don't care at all. Anyone who is saying girls are better then boys, or boys are better then girls are sexist. In my family most of them are sexist, about how only girls can do work and stuff like that. While they don't care what the boys do [lucky me :P]. To be honest women can get jobs too, while men can do home chores. It's just personal preference. I've guess we just grown into the mode that women has to take care of the children and the men works. Girls have good opportunity for jobs a lot too, while men can easily take care of children. So my answer for this is Men = Women

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There is no difference in men or women. They're the same, both have pros and cons.

p.s anyone says either one is better is sexist

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sesh | Student, Grade 12 | (Level 1) Valedictorian

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In some ways girls are better, and other ways boys do!

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user1754155 | High School Teacher | (Level 3) eNoter

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Post42# can u explain ur answer

Gender discretion is a creation of human mind. the inherited culture and heritage brought the change in mind set. i do not find any difference in nature, it is perfectly harmonious. how ever the role of female is superior since the procreative responsibility is fully mother oriented.

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