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Torvald was not to blame, he was lead on to believe that Nora was content. If Nora had revealed her true feelings to Torvald earlier, than sure some of the blame could have fallen on his shoulders. The only reason she didn't was because society encourages this idea of a perfect marriage where both members are completely happy; and Nora felt some guilt for not feeling this way and felt obligated to live a lie. So, society is more at fault than Torvald.

Torvald did not recognize or fulfill his wife's needs, but with the societal norms of the time, can he really be blamed?  Nora is upset she and Torvald never have real conversations, but I get the impression that no married couples have meaningful relationships.  Mrs. Linde was not phased in the least bit by the relationship between Nora and Torvald.  It is a shame that Nora had to dress up and dance for Torvald to make him happy, but it wasn't unusual.  That Nora left him in the end was not his fault, for he didn't understand what he did wrong or how to change.

Although Torvald never learn how to treat his wife like he was suppose to. It wasn’t only his fault of Nora living him. It was also Nora’s fault that they ended up splitting up. Nora since the beginning of her life was treated as a child. She was an immature woman that didn’t think about the future until the end. She did many mistakes in her life that made her come into place at the end.

I definetly do not think Torvald is fully to blame. Torvald can not be blamed for not coming to the same epiphany as Nora. However, Torvald is a man and he does have the benefit of male dominance, instead of turning a blind eye to Nora and their relationship Torvald being the one with more power should have attempted to recognize what his relationship and life was lacking, but even so, Torvald was doing as he had been taught, but he should have stood up for what he felt was right. Torvalds constant sympathetic attitude towards Nora suggests that he kinda knows that he has the power to help Nora and make things better, but he is obviously afraid and continues the same pattern.

Of course it is Torvald's fault.  It was destined to be Torvald's fault.  It has to be Torvald's fault.  Torvald embodies everything that Ibsen protested.  He fully accepts the social pressures of Victorian society without question.  He dehumanizes women by treating them as pets, as something to be owned.  He overemphasizes the importance of material objects. Torvald is Victorian society.  In order for Nora to break away from these social mores as Ibsen wanted, she absolutely has to break away from Torvald.  He cannot change.  The only way that his views will change is if society's views change.  Torvald is consumed by the superego.  He needs to construct the perfect facade - the perfect doll house - at the sake of what is on the inside, at the sake of happiness.