9th Grade English Teachers Group
Question:
Are Romeo and Juliet's feelings of true love authentic or are they in love with the way they look?
Answers:
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Posted by madelynfair on Tuesday March 17, 2009 at 1:48 PM
This question is an evaluative one, meaning, you must identify criteria for "authentic love." This love contrasts with physical love rooted in desire and admiration of beauty. So, first ask yourself, "What is authentic love? How do we define it?" Now you must look to see if there is any authentic love in the play. You must do the same with physical love, asking yourself, What are the signs of someone being motivated only by desire for physical beauty?
Is authentic romantic love respectful? Is it patient? Kind? Devoted? Is there sacrifice? Identify at least three criteria that you believe are a fair standard for judging the romantic love between two people. I would recommend that you discuss this idea of true and authentic love with someone whose opinions you respect before finalizing your list.
Let's look at Act 1, scene five -- Romeo and Juliet's first encounter. Romeo says:
If I profane with my unworthiest hand
This holy shrine, the gentle fine is this:
My lips, two blushing pilgrims, ready stand(100)
To smooth that rough touch with a tender kiss.Look up profane, unworthiest, shrine, pilgrims, and see what connotations these words have in common. In short, these words are all pointing to religious imagery, where Romeo plays the role of a pilgrim at a shrine, which was common in Shakespeare's era. A religious devotee would approach the statue of a saint or the Virgin Mary and pray for intercession on a need that the supplicant had. So, if you had lost a valuable item, you might go to your local church and pray to Saint Anthony's statue for help locating it; if you were in great grief and fear and needed protection, you might go and pray to another saint. So, Romeo is treating Juliet like a holy image in a shrine, acting as a pilgrim there to worship. (Catholic traditions were still alive.) Remember: still look these words up, because they are evidence for your argument. Now ask yourself: do Romeo's first words in his first encounter (essentially, his pick-up lines!) meet the criteria you've established for romantic love?
Examine their entire exchange through the lens of the "authentic love" criteria. How many words do Romeo and Juliet use that have suggestions of respectful, kind, sacrificing love?
Then you want to use the criteria for physical love, or lust, to examine this exchange between Romeo and Juliet. Do you see any signs of physical attraction? Of interest only in the body or physical beauty? You'll note that Romeo takes a physical action and Juliet invites him to do so again. Romeo changes his language, keeping the religious metaphors alive, but this time, it is "sin."
Note that their entire exchange is a sonnet -- 14 lines of love poetry, rhyming, in synch with one another. That's pretty romantic. Is Shakespeare elevating this moment between them to something highly romantic and spiritual?
Is it possible that Romeo and Juliet are motivated by both true love mixed with physical attraction? Could the answer be "both"?
To do a really thorough assessment, look at every scene where Romeo and Juliet are together (especially their balcony scene conversation -- Act 2, scene 2 -- and Act 3, scene 5), and ask where you see the authentic behaviors. Weigh those against behaviors that are more physically motivated.
Good luck!
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